Chapter 104 Love is a Self-Education

  2018, July 13, Weibo.

  An ordinary person: "When love seems good, it is not love, but wisdom and morality."

  …

   During the summer vacation of freshman year, Ning Youguang and Xia Qu were in Europe.

   Leisure, pleasure, contemplation, decadence.

   During travel.

  Ning Youguang asked Xia Yu: "Sister Yu, do you know why people love to travel?"

  Xia Yan replied without hesitation: "Because everyone likes the freshness of the journey."

  Ning Youguang continued to ask: "Then do you know why everyone likes this kind of freshness?"

  Xia Yan shook his head: "I didn't think about that."

   "People like freshness because it grabs people's attention in time and keeps people in the moment."

"it seems to be like this."

   "Matt Hagrid said, if you want to conquer the anxiety in your life, live in the moment, live with every breath."

  Xia Qu was thoughtful.

   She found that during this period of He Youyou's travel in Europe, she really didn't miss the scumbag much.

   If she doesn't miss him, she won't feel sad at all.

  …

   End the journey and return to Jincheng on the plane.

Xia Yu said to Ning Youguang, who was sitting next to him and looked at the blue sky outside the machine window: "Yes, I really appreciate you being by my side all the time. Now that I think about it, after seeing his true face, I am especially grateful to life for giving him. I took such a class. I decided to work hard, and I will be the same me who loved life, full of energy and happiness in the future!"

  Ning Youguang turned his head, looked at her and smiled softly: "So, this matter has been turned over?"

Xia Yun took a deep breath and smiled: "Yes, the chapter is over! I will not ask or mention these things again in the future, and I will try my best not to think about them, thank you. Support and enlightenment during this time!”

After being silent for a while, she continued: "I'm a little bit happy now. This not-so-good relationship only took three and a half years of my life, but it made me understand a lot of things in the relationship. In life, I think these lessons are worthwhile."

   "Yes, it's really a small thing in life, a very small thing."

   "Yes, I now feel like I have made great progress in my view of love and life!"

  Ning Youguang's clear eyes filled with admiration: "I also experienced the feeling of not being entangled with trash, right? Trash will turn you into trash."

   "I don't want to."

   "Then live the next life."

  …

   2018, August 06, Weibo.

[An ordinary person: "Love is a self-education. No matter who you meet, he is the person who should appear in your life. It is no accident. He will definitely teach you something. Therefore, I also believe that no matter I Wherever I go, that's where I should go, experience something I should experience, and meet someone I should meet.]

   Boston, USA, in a single apartment.

   Shi Mochizuki watched Ning Youguang's Weibo lightly with the corners of his mouth, and gave a thumbs up.

   After doing all of this, he went back to her main Weibo page and swiped, and found that he didn't miss any of her new content, so he returned to his Weibo page and sent a Weibo:

  [A person who likes ordinary people: "Some people say that liking makes people brave, but it seems that this is not the case with me now. liking makes people timid and never makes a statement."]

   Fortunately, there are Weibo and the Internet.

   Even if they were thousands of miles apart, he could still see the messages she sent.

   That way he knew that he didn't cut off contact with her today.

  …

  The two cousins ​​came back from Europe.

  Xia Cong did not continue to salt fish and lay flat at home, but wrote her own resume, went out to apply for a job, and found a suitable job to go to the company for an internship.

  Everything that happens in this world has two sides.

  Love breakup will make Xia Qu suffer, and it will also make her grow up.

  After returning from Europe, she packed up her broken heart, started thinking about life again, and decided to try a life she had never imagined before.

   Miss Xia is a family lover, and the internship did not go to far away places, but to find a job in Jincheng.

   This reassured Ning Youguang a lot.

   She goes out early and returns late every day, and is basically not at home during the day.

   Even though the family thought it was a little surprising that the eldest girl went out to find a job, they were also very supportive.

   Internship life made Xia Qun experience a sense of novelty.

   When I first entered the workplace, I was very busy and didn’t pay much.

   made her grow up more quickly, and it just happened to make her less mindful of other messy things.

   This summer.

  Xia Yan understood a truth in life in the heartache:

  [No matter how bad the life experience is, it will eventually pass with the passage of time. ]

  …

  The children grow up every year, and the older ones get older every year.

   Freshman summer vacation for two months.

   Half, Ning Youguang used to accompany Xia Yu to get out of the shadow of broken love, and the other half was used to accompany the elders at home.

   After traveling back to Jincheng, she lived with the two families in Ningxia.

  Sometimes, she would spend part of her time going to Xie's house to accompany Xie Yizun and Xia Youqing.

  Treats her family, she tries to be as equal as possible.

   She knows that now may be the most leisurely time in her life. If she doesn't use it to spend time with her family, when she gets busy in the future, she won't have so much time for them.

  Life is impermanent, and in the future, I don’t know when and what uncontrollable things will happen.

  …

   This morning, the Xie family villa.

Ning Youguang got up, and the first thing she did after washing up was to go to the back garden of the villa. She helped Grandma Xie, who had rheumatoid arthritis accidentally two days ago and couldn't walk well, to carefully divide the fruits and vegetables she planted. watered.

  After pouring the water, when she entered the house through the back door, she heard Xie Yizun shouting, "Sister, sister."

   She stopped and asked, "Why?"

   "No more toilet paper."

   She had no choice but to go to the cupboard and get a bucket of toilet paper for Young Master Xie.

   When I came back, before I even went to the bathroom, I heard Xie Yizun reciting Tang poems over and over again in the distance: "When the hoeing day is noon, the sweat drips down the soil..."

  "..." Ning Youguang was speechless for a moment, then walked to the door of the bathroom and stood still, "One by one, you flush the water, and I'll get you toilet paper in there."

   "Got it." From the facade came Xie Yizun's unbroken milky voice and the sound of toilet flushing.

   She stood at the door for a while, "I'm a girl, you're a boy, I can't look at your ass, so I closed my eyes and came in. You have to tell me how to get there."

   Xie Yizun replied obediently, "I know."

  Ning Youguang closed his eyes and pushed open the bathroom door and walked in slowly.

   Xie Yizun also expressed precise guidance and she came to his side.

   After handing the toilet paper to his hand, Xie Yizun began to ask again: "Sister, help me wipe my ass."

   "Do your own thing."

  Ning Youguang quickly left the bathroom.

   Xie Yizun has already entered the big class.

  After the age of three, the opposite **** cannot meet naked.

   She wouldn't wipe his **** for him.

   When we returned to the living room.

   She saw Xia Youqing, Xia Youqing's manager, and workers all in the living room.

   The worker was holding his hands, standing nervously beside Xia Youqing, and said incoherently, "I'll mend it, I can mend it, and you can wear it, my wife."

  Xia Youqing handed her the cashmere sweater and cardigan he was holding and said, "Forget it, you can make it up and wear it yourself."

   Auntie's eyes showed joy, but she said embarrassedly, "It's expensive."

  Xia Youqing said: "It's not expensive, just a few hundred dollars."

   Hearing this, the agent on the side was stunned.

  The worker clutched his chest, breathed a sigh of relief, and walked away happily with the cashmere sweater given by Xia Youqing.

   After the worker left, Xia Youqing looked calm on the surface, but she was betrayed by her body language, and she knocked over the coffee in her hand.

   When she went to the bathroom to deal with the stains all over her body, and returned to the living room after changing into clean clothes, her face was still a little ugly.

  Ning Youguang raised his eyebrows: "Burberry's new cashmere sweater and cardigan, what's wrong?"

  Xia Youqing said with anger: "I asked her to cut the label of the cardigan, but I didn't expect to cut a hole for me."

   "No wonder, a few hundred dollars is not enough." After Ning Youguang finished speaking, he lowered his head and raised the corners of his mouth slightly.

   It's been a while, but Qingqing will be able to control her emotions.

  Xia Yuqing picked up the phone, and was extremely depressed and placed an order for a new cashmere sweater and cardigan on Burberry's official website. Only then did his mood improve.

  Her manager was very winking, she didn't speak the whole time just now, quietly in front of the wallflower.

Seeing that his artist's face has improved now, he looked at the delicate and picturesque girl who was sitting quietly drinking tea, and his eyes were probing Xia Youqing: "Qingqing, have you ever thought about letting your daughter join us in our entertainment? Play around?"

  Xia Youqing gave her a sideways glance, with all kinds of charm: "She is not suitable for the entertainment industry, do you know why?"

   "Why?" The agent was stunned.

   The girl in front of her with such a superb appearance, excellent figure, and unforgettable temperament, should be born to be a highly anticipated existence.

Isn't    the most suitable seedling in the entertainment industry?

However, Xia Youqing looked at the calm daughter next to her with disgust, and said slowly: "Which 18-year-old girl have you seen, who doesn't like to dress up, doesn't like to wear makeup, can buy three dozen identical clothes and put them at home and wear them at home, as long as The body shape remains unchanged, and it can be worn for about 50 years. Is there such a female star in the entertainment industry who doesn't care about appearance? "

   Are there young girls who don’t like to dress up?

   is still a very beautiful girl.

   The agent stared at Ning Youguang quite novelly: "Thanks to your daughter being a fairy, she looks good in sackcloth, otherwise, who would dare to waste skin and flesh if she shivered a little longer."

Xia Youqing finally found an opportunity to complain about her daughter's clothes: "You say, the girl now, who doesn't dress up to death, buy and buy when you have money, clothes, bags, cosmetics, shoes, etc., buy the season's The new model is not enough, but also limited edition customization, there is no one like her, who has everything, but doesn't want anything."

   The agent didn't understand at first, but he laughed instead, "It's really rare, but, to be honest, this child's life is really simple enough."

   She is older than Xia Youqing, and Ning Youguang is indeed still a child in her eyes.

   "Is that simple? It's clearly lazy, too lazy to toss." Xia Youqing was speechless.

"It's not very good, you won't be tired if you don't struggle." The manager looked at the girl beside her who let them discuss without blinking, and the appreciation in her eyes deepened, "If you want me to say, a person can Don't live a simple life, don't live so complicated, how tiring, you look at the people in our circle, they look bright and beautiful on the surface, but whoever finishes their work and goes back to their room and closes the door is not wishing for the whole world to ignore it. It's just comfortable."

   "That's what you said." Xia Youqing thought about it, thinking that what the agent said made sense.

"So, a girl like yours is very good, you don't have so many desires, you can be easily satisfied, and you can live the life you want to live as you want, you can live as you like, you don't need to look at anyone's face, you don't need to live in In anyone's evaluation, pure enough and free enough, this is a situation that many people have been pursuing all their lives but are likely to never get."

Thinking that there are two children of this age in his family, the agent couldn't help but say a few more words: "So those of us who are elders, don't judge the lives of these young people with our own values, otherwise, What are we working so hard for? It’s not about wanting children to live easily. As long as they can live easily and easily, why should we forget the original idea and force them to pursue these false names? They like it Fortunately, I don't like it, and maybe it hurts the relationship between each other."

   Having said this, the agent also saw that Xia Youqing's daughter probably would not enter the entertainment industry.

   She sees no desire in her.

  …

   Shortly after the fall of the second year of sophomore year, Ning Youguang went to the head teacher's office to hand in the documents.

   But he didn't want to, he would hear the head teacher's voice coming from outside the door.

He said: "Jiang Wei, I know that your family is not easy or difficult, but you still have to find a way to collect the tuition fees and pay them all. I have tried my best to give you a one-month delay in applying for the school. It will be a month in a few days, and if you don’t pay the tuition, the teacher will be very embarrassed.”

  Jiang Wei: "Teacher...I, I will find a way."

   She immediately ran away lightly and hid in the stairwell next to her.

After   , when she heard the footsteps of Jiang Wei leaving from the head teacher's office, she waited another ten minutes before entering the head teacher's office and handing over the materials to the head teacher.

   That night, the girls' dormitory.

   After eleven o'clock at night, everything was silent.

  Ning Youguang was on the bed and heard Jiang Wei's suppressed sobbing from the lower bunk.

  …

   The next day, UCAS was approaching the end of school in the afternoon.

   Jiang Wei gathered up his courage and walked into the head teacher's office with heavy steps.

   The head teacher was sitting on an office chair and immediately smiled when he saw her coming.

  Jiang Wei lowered his head and quickly said what he had been thinking about for a long time: "Teacher, can you give me a few more days, our family..."

   But he didn't want to, and before he finished speaking, he heard the cheerful voice of the head teacher: "Jiang Wei, there is no need for grace."

Her heart sank, so she had to grit her teeth and tell the head teacher about the real situation at home: "Teacher, the construction site in our hometown is not doing well this year, and my father always has nothing to do. I don't have any money now, I know it's embarrassing for you, but our family has thought of everything we can think of."

   As she spoke, her tears fell.

The head teacher got up, walked over to her and patted her on the shoulder gently, and said comfortably: "Don't worry, there is a kind person willing to sponsor the tuition and miscellaneous expenses of 20 poor students in our school for four years, and you are one of them. One, from now on, you just study hard and don’t have to worry about tuition fees, and you can tell your family the good news later, so that they can feel at ease.”

   Jiang Wei was stunned, suffering from childhood to adulthood.

   She never imagined that she would have a day when she would be able to run.

   She can meet such a good thing.

   "Teacher, I...Thank you so much for that kind person, and thank you and the school, I..." She cried and bowed to the head teacher constantly.

The head teacher took a step back, did not receive her big gift, but said with a smile: "You don't need to thank me and the school, just thank the kind person in your heart. I hope you have good luck today to get help from others. After graduation, there are The ability can also help other people in need. As for... that kind person, she donated anonymously, and the school cannot disclose her name."

  I can't know the identity information of the kind person who helped me, and I can't repay him in person in the future.

  In addition to being disappointed, Jiang Wei had no choice but to pray in his heart that the good-hearted man could live a safe and happy life and his business was prosperous.

   She thought: "I can help 20 college students pay their tuition fees for four years at once. He must be a big businessman who likes to accumulate virtue and do good deeds."

   After that, I sincerely thanked the head teacher, the school, and the kind people, and left the head teacher's office happily.

  …

   It was dinner time after school.

  Because today is too lucky and too happy.

  Jiang Wei left the head teacher's office and went to the school cafeteria, where he luxuriously ordered two plates of stir-fry at the Xiaochao stall, one sweet and sour pork ribs that she had long admired, and the salted fish and eggplant pot for dinner.

  Two small stir-fries, a bowl of white rice, after the chef is done, neatly placed on the green plate, fragrant.

   In the cafeteria, Jiang Wei happily took the meal at the window, and was looking for a seat with his plate in hand when he happened to see his roommate Ning Youguang also eating in the cafeteria at the moment.

   There was a vacant seat opposite her.

   hesitated for a while, then she sat down opposite her with a dinner plate: "Ning Youguang, what a coincidence, you are also eating."

  The girl raised her head, a beautiful hibiscus with a warm smile on her face: "What a coincidence."

   There are also two dishes on the plate in front of her, a bowl of white rice.

  Two dishes are all vegetarian, one is stir-fried vegetables, and the other is the moonlight on the lotus pond.

  I ate half of the white rice.

  Jiang Wei generously placed the dinner plate between the two of them, "You only eat vegetables. Would you like to try my sweet and sour pork ribs."

  Ning Youguang chuckled, picked up chopsticks and generously took a piece of sweet and sour pork ribs from her plate, "Then I'm welcome."

   After she finished speaking, she put the spareribs in her mouth, and after nibbling it slowly, she nodded: "It's delicious."

   Jiang Wei saw that she did not refuse, and the smile on his face became brighter, "Then you eat more."

   Then, she took two or three more pieces for her with unused chopsticks.

   "Enough is enough, I'm almost full."

  Ning Youguang doesn't actually like meat, and the reason why she is willing to eat her roommate's spare ribs is because she knows that she is in a good mood today.

   needs someone to share her happiness and joy. 1314

   Happy New Year, my little cuties, I wish you peace and happiness, good luck, get what you want, and have no fear...

   Wish: In 2022, all the beauty in the world belongs to you!

  

  

   (end of this chapter)