Chapter 124 Teacher, do you believe in numerology?

  When Ning Youguang taught her classmates at school, she would leave about ten minutes between each class to allow students to ask her questions freely, which she called the "Q&A session".

   "Q&A" is undoubtedly the most popular part of Mr. Ning's class.

   Every time the class comes to the "Q&A session", the atmosphere in the class will be pushed to the climax.

   On this day, Mr. Feng Ning had another "Q&A session" between classes.

   Some students laughed and asked: "Why is the teacher so beautiful and still single?"

   Wearing a white suit, **** high-heeled shoes, and lightly curled long hair, Teacher Ning with glasses raised his eyebrows: "Pretty, is there any problem with being single?"

   The audience burst into laughter, and the students babbled:

"No no."

   "Teachers are the treasures of our National University of Science and Technology, not just anyone who is worthy of them."

"so……"

   "Be sure to pick slowly."

   "Hahahahahaha."

   "Can the teacher accept the love between teachers and students?" Ning Youguang looked at it, and the question from the audience was a boy with fair looks.

   "I respect all emotional relationships premised on your love and my will."

   "Are girls okay?" A girl in the audience asked with round eyes, a very beautiful girl.

   "There's nothing wrong with girls." Ning Youguang picked up the teaching aids on the podium with a smile, "However, the teacher only plans to fall in love with a soul mate for the time being."

   "Ah, who is the teacher's soulmate?" The boys and girls in the audience were shocked and curious.

   "Knowledge." Ning Youguang stretched out his index finger and pushed up the glasses on the bridge of his nose.

  The thin rose gold chain on the glasses swayed with her movements, reflecting a few glitters, making her already well-crafted face a little hazy.

  The temperament on her body, from the sassy at the beginning, suddenly became a little more unfathomable, mysterious and attractive.

  The students under the stage went crazy in an instant.

   Both boys and girls, many of them were red-faced and whispered to the classmates next to them:

   "Mr. Ning looks like a scumbag with glasses."

   "I want to be Teacher Ning's glasses."

   "It's another day when Teacher Ning cried beautifully."

   "Beautiful and sassy, ​​awsl!"

  “…”

   Looking at the scene below the stage that looked like a star chasing scene, Ning Youguang was speechless for half a second and asked, "You all, and no one asked me about the content of the lecture just now, so I will assume that you all understand."

After   , she picked up the teaching aids that she had just packed up, "get out of class."

   The students under the stage immediately sat up straight and stretched out Erkang’s hand:

   "No, teacher, we didn't understand."

   "Teacher, tell us more about it!"

   There are also some classmates who are very clever, standing up quickly and loudly throwing serious questions: "Teacher, I want to know as a psychiatrist, what are the problems you want to find out in these treatments?"

   This question really left Ning Youguang behind.

She stood in front of the podium again and answered seriously: "Every time a client finds me, I don't want to find out the problem, I just hope they can understand themselves better and let them see if there is something in them. Variety."

   "Then what would you do if your treatment didn't work for the client?"

   "If, I perceive a treatment that does not inspire them, then I will immediately terminate the treatment."

   Afterwards, several other students seriously raised several professional questions, and Ning Youguang patiently answered them one by one.

   The enthusiastic students in the classroom did not let Teacher Ning leave until the next class was about to start.

   When Ning Youguang walked out of the classroom with a smile, there were many boys and girls behind her, saying goodbye to her giggling.

   She didn't turn around, but raised her hand and waved to them.

  …

  Because the bell for the next class has rang, the campus of UCAS is a little empty at this moment, and there are no people.

   In such a slightly quiet situation.

   When Ning Youguang was walking attentively, the light footsteps behind him became more obvious.

   She turned her head and saw a tall and thin girl, dressed casually and handsomely, with a handsome face, following her unhurriedly.

   is her student.

   "Fang Tian, ​​what's the matter with you following me?" she asked loudly.

   The tall and thin girl paused for a while, then trotted to her front, considered it for a long time, and asked carefully:

   "Teacher, can I buy you a cup of milk tea?"

  Ning Youguang saw the deep confusion in her eyes, and asked with a chuckle, "Are you out of class next class?"

  Fang Tian shook his head: "No."

   "Well, let's go."

  …

   National University of Science and Technology Pedestrian Street, there is no one in the milk tea shop decorated with Internet celebrity style at this time.

   "Teacher, your chia berry." Fang Tian gently placed the milk tea he just took from the bar in front of Ning Youguang.

   "Thank you." Ning Youguang chuckled lightly and inserted the straw unhurriedly.

  Fang Tian started to get nervous while holding his unopened milk tea.

   She bowed her head, preoccupied.

  Ning Youguang took a sip of milk tea and quietly observed her for a while before slowly asking, "Are you confused and want to chat with me?"

  Fang Tian looked up at her, and after a long while, he muttered:

   "Teacher, do you believe in numerology?"

"How to say?"

   "It's fortune-telling, metaphysics, feng shui, etc. Do you believe it, teacher?"

  Ning Youguang took another sip of the milk tea and gently chewed the pulp inside, "I can't say I don't believe it at all."

  Fang Tian's eyes widened instantly: "So the teacher also thinks that metaphysics is not a feudal superstition, right?"

Ning Youguang thought for a while, and replied seriously: "How do you say it, there is a saying that the end of science is metaphysics, and everything in this world is justified by existence. The reason why many people think metaphysics is superstitious is because they have a deep understanding of these disciplines. They all seem to understand but do not understand, and they are in a state of not fully understanding, so they are called superstitions."

  Fang Tian listened to her words, like a balloon that had been punctured, his whole body softened, and a confused and gloomy look appeared on his face:

   "Teacher, I didn't believe it before, but now I have to believe it."

   "Is it because of some opportunity?" Ning Youguang asked softly.

Fang Tian nodded heavily, and then slowly said in confusion: "That's right, didn't I go home last week? My grandfather asked a Feng Shui master to show our house again. Before that, he had already asked I have been looking at the house by several Feng Shui masters. In the past, every time a Feng Shui master came to our house, they would say something like 'um', 'ok', 'okay', but last week the feng shui master told my grandfather. I was very careful. I listened carefully beside him at the time. After listening to his explanation, I went to search our house and was stunned. Teacher, do you know? It's all the bad things about the feng shui of the house. All of them are hit, and the whole person behind me is not well."

   "Does this have anything to do with believing this?"

   "Yes!" Fang Tian's eyes showed deep fear.

   "Is it because of what happened at home recently?" Ning Youguang's voice became softer.

   "Yes, teacher, it's all because of my mother." Fang Tian frowned when he said "my mother".

   "What happened to your mother?"

"Our house is a newly bought house, and we have just moved there for less than three years. Before that, my mother had been in bad health, not because she moved to the new house, but because she had been in bad health for a long time. The kind that goes to the hospital, she has a history of mental illness, and she has been taking medicine. In addition, she has gynecological problems, so she is taking medicine for a long time, but since we moved into the new house, she has been continuously Some people who sell health care products, do micro-businesses, and people who do pyramid schemes cheat." Speaking of this, Fang Tian became anxious, "A normal person knows that those people are liars, but my mother believes in them, for the past two years. After coming down, all the money on her body has been defrauded, not only that, after being deceived, she still doesn't feel that she has been deceived, and now she starts to borrow money to buy these physical therapy, health care products, medicines and so on, My dad and I only recently learned about this."

   "Is it that serious?" Ning Youguang asked in surprise.

"Yes, my mother has borrowed a lot of money outside, and we are all afraid that she will be cheated more, so I found out last week that our house was like this, and I was even more afraid. If it weren't for my mother's incident , just listening to what Feng Shui said, I may not feel this way, but now I really can't help but believe it."

   "Looks like Mom's problem is a bit serious."

   "Yes, teacher, what should I do? I don't know what to do to keep my mother from being deceived. I don't dare to go home now, I'm afraid to go back to live in that house."

   Knowing that the girl in front of her was in extreme fear, Ning Youguang sat closer to her and gently stroked her back to make her feel better.

   Then, she said in a gentle voice: "Mom's question, I still need to wait and see for the time being, but about your house's bad feng shui, the teacher can still tell you about it."

   "Teacher?" Fang Tian gradually calmed down under Ning Youguang's comfort.

"Everything around us has a magnetic field, and everyone's external magnetic field, including your house feng shui, your horoscope, ID number, phone number, all of these add up to only 40% of your luck, The so-called environment changes according to the heart, and the good or bad luck in life is not all due to the rotation of these magnetic fields, but the most important thing is related to a person's xinxing. Moreover, these contents are interpreted, it does not represent the whole of a person, it only can It is only a temporary description of a person’s state in a short period, so you have to look at this problem in terms of variables, and if you encounter a bad explanation, don’t worry too much about it, because the variable things are changing at any time.”

   "So the house isn't the main reason why mom is like this, right?"

   "What do you say?"

   "I see." Fang Tian took a deep breath.

"If I've told you this, and you're still afraid of the house, you can ask someone in your family to hire a feng shui master who has written the letter to change the feng shui for your home without spending too much money, just a few thousand dollars. It can be done within.”

   "The problem is that my dad doesn't believe this, it's too difficult." Fang Tian felt particularly distressed when he thought of the quarrel between his father and grandfather over these matters.

   "If Dad really doesn't believe this, what house does he live in and what happens to him is fate. You have to learn to respect him. He is in such a state."

  Fang Tian obviously couldn't accept his father's stubborn cognition and all kinds of messy things at home.

  Ning Youguang also knows that accepting an unapproved thing requires a process for anyone.

So, she changed the subject and continued: "In this state of mother, as a daughter, you can't oppose her for the time being. According to my judgment, your mother has a lot of fears. When a person is in extreme fear, her feelings about the world will be greatly reduced. The sense of trust is very low, she can't listen to what you say, so it's useless to reason with her and teach her how to do it."

"Yes, teacher, I just learned that when my mother was cheated of so much money, I patiently communicated with her, and she would tell me so much, but now, she is in a state of completely refusing to communicate at home, she is the I believe in those liars, I am willing to be deceived by them, and I don't believe in us, just like Zhongxie. Now whoever says those medicines are bad, she is anxious about whoever is. She just thinks that medicine is very effective for her, and she keeps telling people that The medicines are very effective. We sent them to the Food and Drug Administration for inspection. The Food and Drug Administration said they were useless, but she insisted that they were very useful. The problem is that those medicines are really expensive. , she didn't get better after eating her body."

  Fangtian put his head in his hands, and the whole person was extremely distressed.

   "To be honest, I really can't understand why she did that. If she keeps borrowing money to buy it like this, our house will not be able to be kept."

   "Have you been to that store? Go and see what their routines are."

   "We couldn't find that store. We found it before and called the police on the spot, but it didn't take long for them to move."

   "Didn't mom keep in touch with them?"

   "She still went, but she didn't tell us where she was. She knew we wouldn't let her go there for medical treatment."

"Before this incident, my father lost a lot of temper at home, quarreled with her many times, and the whole family knew that many people in our family also came to persuade her not to continue to be deceived. Promise us that she will not go there anymore, the course of treatment has been completed, but later we found out that she still went there secretly, she can’t borrow money now, so she just took out a loan, it’s too scary.”

   "It's really scary." Ning Youguang said slowly.

   She knew that the student in front of her was facing a huge family crisis, and she had countless ways to analyze why her mother was like this, but these were all temporary solutions.

   After thinking about it, she asked, "Did you take your mother to see a psychiatrist at home?"

   "Yes, I saw several psychiatrists and took medicine, but it didn't work." This is what makes people desperate.

   "How do you need a teacher to help you?"

  Fang Tian was stunned for a moment, and then slowly said the purpose of looking for her today: "Can the teacher take my mother's case?"

   "Would your mother be willing to see me?"

  Fang Tian was extremely distressed, "She doesn't want to see a psychiatrist."

Ning Youguang sighed softly: "Fang Tian, ​​I will always consult with clients over the age of ten. If they strongly refuse to accept the counseling of a psychiatrist, I will not force them, this is as a professional A principle that psychiatrists must abide by - psychiatrists are the work of helping people to help themselves, if the client refuses to help, then no matter how capable I am, it will be in vain."

  Fang Tian lowered his head and fell silent, his whole body exuding despair and irritability.

   "However, for my mother's illness, taking medicine is useless. I think only psychological healing can help her."

   "Your conjecture is correct."

   "That teacher..."

"As your teacher, of course I hope to be able to help you, but when your mother walks into my consultation room, I am her psychiatrist, no matter what, I can't destroy the principles that I should have as a psychologist. "

  Fang Tian's mood was a little broken, "Then what should I do, teacher, I'm so scared..."

  Ning Youguang gently held the helpless student in front of him in his arms, and said in a gentle voice, "Teacher knows that you are very afraid. If you can persuade your mother to take the initiative to seek my help, I will take over your mother's case."

  Fang Tian tightly hugged the teacher who was lighter than himself in front of him, smelled the faint fragrance on her body, and wept bitterly.

   Then, she raised her head, looked at her, and said almost stubbornly: "Teacher, I will ask the head teacher for leave tomorrow and go home. No matter what method I use, I must bring my mother to you."

   "Okay, I'll wait for you." Ning Youguang smiled gently.

Then, she pushed the milk tea that she pushed aside and pushed it back in front of her: "Before this, the teacher has to tell you that if we find anything bad around us, once it is found, it means that it is a good The beginning of the transformation of the new year, the good and the bad depend on each other, so don't be afraid, life is always going to go on, the most important thing for you at the moment is not to put too much psychological burden on yourself, worry about what will happen to your mother, she is now It is a patient who needs your help urgently, and at this time, the more you have to take good care of yourself, whether it is body, mind, or money, etc., and save energy safely, otherwise you will have no way to better help and take care of you in a critical juncture. family."

   "Teacher, then I'll take all this happening, as you said, it's the beginning of getting better."

  Fang Tian took a big sip of the milk tea, and squeezed a smile on his troubled face. 1314

   (end of this chapter)