Chapter 186 Be Your Own Creator

   "But when we do everything, it also means we can't do anything well, and when we can't do anything well, it also means we don't know what we're doing at all—"

   "The confused period of life is coming."

The youth's face showed the joy of 'being seen', "Mr. Ning, I am in this state, I feel that I am very impetuous now, and I am looking for the reason, and I have asked many friends, they have analyzed many reasons with me, and even Some people told me that the environment of the company I went to was not good, and that the feng shui of my family was not conducive to my career, and some people said that I didn't get along with the bosses of those companies, and there were all kinds of messy reasons..."

  Ning Youguang felt a little ironic when he heard it, "What did you do before these factors that troubled you?"

   "Most of the time, I choose to escape, not accept it, and choose another place, but later I found out that this just kept me wasting time and energy."

   "Constantly immersed in the uncertainty of life."

"Yes." The young man said helplessly, "I hope I can get out of this vicious circle. I have also seen some people, they will not live because of the poor feng shui of the house; they will not live because of the people they meet. If they are uncomfortable, they will stop dating... They can always find a way to balance these, from beginning to end, they are very calm, safe, and not anxious, and I hope I can have this state as well."

"That's because they have something very persistent in their hearts, and they know what they actually want. They understand very well that all they have to do is to try to balance all the unfavorable factors around them, and to strive for their own goals. As the so-called 'the state is transformed from the heart', everything on the outside is transformed by the heart." Ning Youguang said clearly.

"Yes, Teacher Ning." The young man paused slightly and continued, "My biggest trouble now is that I don't know what I actually want, and I'm constantly trying and making mistakes. However, the sunk cost is already very high, so I'm still I didn't find it, I saw my classmates - some of them are doing very well in the workplace, and seeing their high-spirited state in the circle of friends, I sometimes envy them, but most of the time, I feel You can't do it yourself."

   After talking with the young man, Ning Youguang discovered that the young man is actually very smart, and he is constantly exploring the path of self-growth.

  Now, he just encountered some obstacles temporarily, unable to overcome the past, and no one around him understands him and helps him through this period of confusion.

She said, "If you can't find what your heart wants for a while, don't be afraid, don't worry, you can focus on the moment, do what you can do now, and all the uncertainties in your life will be like As the tide recedes slowly, certainty will surface, and at that time, you will feel full of security, seeing the meaning of your existence, and your life will bloom naturally.”

  The youth listened to her words and thought a little.

  Ning Youguang continued, "The moment you decide to become yourself, you are your own 'creator', and eternal life can begin."

  The young man thought about it and asked, "Does Teacher Ning mean that I can 'unshakable' on the way to finding my way?"

Ning Youguang nodded in admiration, "Yes, first find where your heart is, and then move forward with certainty, time will tell you the answer. During this process, communicate frankly with your parents and tell them Please give you some time and patience." 1314

   Come on~

  

  

   (end of this chapter)