Chapter 241 Three shifts

  Xia Youqing was still in the mood, looked at Mochizuki and said nothing.

   "Auntie, would you like some tea?" Shi Mochizuki poured pure water into the kettle.

   "Stop drinking." Xia Youqing said with a headache, "Eat first if you're hungry, don't get busy."

   "I'll go to eat after I boil the water." Shi Mochizuki looked gentle and refined.

  Xie Baosheng walked over to Ning Youguang and said with a smile, "You bought so much delicious food after going out for a while when you were young?"

   "I didn't buy anything, I just packed a few dishes, and I don't know if it suits my uncle and auntie's appetite." Shi Mochizuki pressed the boil water button of the electric hot water.

   "I'm not picky eaters." Xie Baosheng worried about his stomach, "Just eat whatever you want."

   He asked Xie Yizun, "Are you eating?"

   He actually heard what his son shouted outside just now.

   didn't even hear it.

   is purely noisy!

   "Don't eat." Xie Yizun glared at the mother sitting opposite him.

   "It's fine if you don't eat it." Xia Youqing said, "Thank you for eating it yourself."

  Xie Baosheng picked up the chopsticks, "Then I'll eat first, I didn't eat at noon, I'm hungry."

  Ning Youguang reminded him, "Uncle, Mom, in thirty minutes, let's go to the room for a meeting."

   Xie Baosheng replied, "How wonderful."

  Shi Mochizuki made a pot of tea after boiling the water, and regardless of whether Xia Youqing drank it or not, she poured the first cup for her.

  …

   Half an hour later, in the room.

"Running away from home this time is like a rebellious adolescence, deliberately opposing you, deliberately angering you." Ning Youguang sat on the chair and said to Xia Youqing and Xie Baosheng who were sitting on the sofa opposite, "He The motive for this behavior is, 'You treat me badly, I understand, it's your problem', he wants to use this to achieve his goals, and he wants you to respect him and understand him more."

  Xia Youqing and Xie Baosheng had a very headache.

   "How should I respect?" Xia Youqing said, "How should I understand? He's only in the eighth grade, so he doesn't want to go to school. How can I respect him?"

   "What if I don't go to school?" Xie Baosheng said anxiously beside him.

   "He has already developed a rejection of going to school. You are using some coercive methods to let him go to school, which simply won't work." Ning Youguang said calmly.

   "What should I do if it doesn't work?" Xia Youqing said, "I have you to help me with psychological counseling for your brother."

   "Without his initiative, I would not have given him psychological counseling." Ning Youguang refused.

   "Just do it quietly, don't tell him not to?" Xia Youqing suggested.

"No." Ning Youguang said, "You are in a parent-child relationship, I am not with him, I cannot interfere with you to mess up the boundaries of the family. If the problem is not solved by then, more problems will arise. ."

   "Do you have any good suggestions?" Xie Baosheng asked as if asking for advice.

   "My suggestion is that you need to change the mode of getting along with each other." Ning Youguang said.

   "How to change? Is there any problem with our current model?" Xie Baosheng.

   "Are you still continuing the pattern of 'I tell you to listen', 'I beat you,' and 'I order you to execute' from your childhood?" Ning Youguang asked.

   "He's still a child, we don't need to teach him, is there any other way?" Xia Youqing was worried.

"One hour, you can use this method, but now he is puberty." Ning Youguang was a little speechless, "Have you understood what a puberty boy needs? What he needs now is to share power with you. , on an equal footing with you, and at this time, you will be able to lean down and hear his voice."

   "Listen to his voice?" Xia Youqing took a deep breath, "His voice is that he doesn't want to go to school, he wants to be a trainee, he wants to be a star."

  Ning nodded lightly, "Yes, he also told me that his dream is to be a star."

   "What kind of star did he become when he was only thirteen years old? He thought that going to the entertainment industry was to play a family, so fun?" Xia Youqing said angrily.

   "My dream is to be a star, I don't think it's a problem." Ning Youguang said, "Aren't you too?"

Xia Youqing looked at it for a while, "Can this be the same? I decided to become a star after I was in high school, and I got into the best film academy. He didn't go to school when he was in junior high school. Don't talk about the best art school in the future, even if you barely get into the circle, you will be laughed at as illiterate and low education!"

"These are all things that can be discussed with him." Ning Youguang said, "It's not unreasonable, and dreams have nothing to do with age, and there is no interest in whether they should or not, only whether they like it or not. When I was in kindergarten I decided to become a psychiatrist in the future.”

Xia Youqing sighed, "You are different from him, you have been good since you were a child, and you have good grades in your studies. Now you have achieved your dreams, and you have done better than everyone else, so you are called Juvenile Desire! What is he? If you don’t study hard every day, you know how to be naughty at school. He said that maybe he wants to be a star for fun.”

   "This is your distinction." Ning Youguang stared at Xia Youqing seriously, "You are prejudiced against him."

"Why am I being prejudiced?" Xia Youqing said, "I'm telling the truth, you don't know how many complaints I get from teachers in his school a week, and you never used me when you were a kid. worried."

"Does it mean that he needs to bear your prejudice without me being obedient?" Ning Youguang asked sharply, "Everyone is a unique flower, and parents should cultivate and encourage their children to learn to be loyal to their inner choices. I His talent is to study, then I am willing to study hard, all you do is to support me in study, one-by-one talent is to play the piano and learn music, why can't you support him to spend more time and energy in these areas?"

"You are also in the arts, so why do you have to be a good student first? What is a good student? What are the criteria for a good student? It is to be admitted to a key high school and be admitted to a good student. Art school? Why is a student who wants to stay true to his inner dream not a good student?"

  Ning Youguang asked a series of questions, and Xia Youqing was a little stunned.

"I believe that there will be excellent people in every field in the future. Supporting one's interest is what you need to do as parents, and you must abandon those unreasonable prejudices and have the right to draw your own blueprint for life. ."

   "According to what you said, I can only leave him alone?" Xia Youqing frowned, "What's the difference between doting on a child?"

   "Parents need to support their children's interests, but it doesn't mean that they are indulgent." Ning Youguang said.

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   (end of this chapter)