Chapter 283 Mind Control

  Ning Youguang treated Liang Yiyi at the hotel where the mother and daughter stayed after they entered Beijing.

   This is the place Liang Yule chose after communicating with her.

   This time Liang Yule was able to bring her mother out——

   She thought, "Fortunately, Teacher Fairy once treated my mother, and she still looks good."

   In addition, her father will be away for a long time before she can abduct her mother.

   "I still remember when Lele was just born, a little one, and now he can take care of his mother." After observing Liang Yiyi's state, Ning Youguang decided to cut the topic from her daughter.

   "Lele has grown faster in the past two years." Liang Yiyi replied with a smile, "She is now 1.68 meters tall, and she is a sophomore in high school."

   "Wow!" Ning Youguang praised, "Then her height will definitely exceed 1.7 meters, and then she will have long legs again."

  Liang Yiyi heard her words and asked, "Is one meter seven long legs?"

  Ning Youguang nodded earnestly, "The girl is 1.7 meters and her legs are not too short."

   "I'm also 1.7 meters." Liang Yiyi struggled, "But my husband often says I have short legs."

   After a long while, she frowned again and looked at her daughter, "I hope Lele looks like her father, not me. She looks good just like her father, and she will be miserable if she looks like me."

   She said with self-loathing, "Body proportions are not good, ugly."

  Ning Youguang asked calmly, "Your husband often says you have short legs?"

  Liang Yiyi nodded sadly, "Yeah, he always says I'm too fat and my legs are short."

  Ning Youguang asked, "Do you often say this? Since when?"

   "It started after we got married." Liang Yiyi said, "Actually, I think he's right because I'm really fat."

  Ning Youguang showed an expression of disbelief, "How could it be? You are so thin now!"

"I'm a little thinner now." Liang Yiyi said, "But when my husband and I got married, we were still very fat. At that time, everyone else wore wedding dresses in size xs, but I wanted to wear size xl. Many people laughed at me behind their backs. Married is also so fat, but fortunately my husband does not dislike me, and also says that I am very cute."

   Maybe she was caught in the good memories of the past, and her face showed a bit of sweetness.

However, soon, she fell into sadness again, "but I became fatter and fatter later, Dr. Ning Xiao, do you remember? When I gave birth to Lele, I was very fat and fat. At that time, I weighed more than 170 pounds. Woolen cloth."

"Lele came home from the hospital after giving birth. One day, I came out of the bathroom after taking a shower, naked. I saw myself in the mirror, a white pile of flesh, no different from a pig, with a bulging waist and abdomen. Since then, I thought I was so ugly at the time, no wonder my husband said I was too fat and wanted to sleep in a separate room with me."

  Ning Youguang said, "Women who have just given birth have to go through this. It's normal, and it will recover later."

Liang Yiyi shook her head, "But some people get back in shape immediately after giving birth, even better than they were before giving birth. My husband told me that his friend's wife had gained 15 kilograms from pregnancy to giving birth. After her son, she regained her prenatal weight, and her son was born weighing 7 pounds."

She said sadly, "I have gained 45 kilograms in Huai Lele, and our family Lele was only 5 kilograms after birth, and all the meat has grown on me. , it's all because of me."

  Liang Yule saw her mother keep falling into self-blame, with a worried and anxious look on her face.

   She opened her mouth and wanted to say something, but she calmed down under Ning Youguang's eyes.

  Ning Youguang said, "Everybody has a different physique. Some people really don't gain much weight when they are pregnant, while others grow more. This has something to do with genes."

   However, Liang Yiyi, who was caught in a fixed self-awareness, firmly believed that her body was fat because she lacked self-management, and it was all her own reasons.

  Ning Youguang had to ask, "Then how did you lose weight later?"

   "Find a personal trainer, diet, exercise."

   "How long did it take?"

   "It's been more than a year." Liang Yiyi said, "Dieting and exercising is really painful, and I always have no self-discipline.

   "It's been amazing for more than a year." Ning Youguang said, "After losing weight, your husband shouldn't say you're fat, right?"

  Liang Yiyi shook her head, "I haven't lost much weight, I'm still fat."

   "So your husband still says you're fat?"

"Yes, I still have a lot of flesh on my body." Liang Yiyi said, "My husband said that I have an easy-to-fat physique, so I can't relax, I must be self-disciplined, and persistent. He also reminded me very carefully that I should be more alert. I will not indulge my diet and eat indiscriminately, with his supervision, I will indeed be much better, and I will not dare to eat indiscriminately."

  Ning Youguang couldn't help chilling down his spine.

   "What do you usually eat?"

   "Eat boiled vegetables, fruits, whole grains, high-quality protein, etc." Liang Yiyi said, "Sometimes I can't help but secretly want to eat some cakes."

   She gestured, about the size of a thumb nail, "But I can't be seen by my husband, and if he sees it, he will tell me again."

   "Don't eat sugar at all?" Ning Youguang asked cautiously.

   "Candy will make me fat." Liang Yiyi said firmly, "I can't eat it."

   At the same time, there was a great desire in her eyes.

   Obviously, she has a sweet tooth.

  Ning Youguang asked softly, "Do you know that if you don't eat sweets at all, it's easy for people to fall into depression?"

   "Will I fall into depression?" Liang Yiyi's face showed confusion, "Will not eating sugar reduce aging?"

Ning Youguang said, "It's really not good to eat too much sugar, but if the human body needs it, you still have to take in some sugar, otherwise your metabolic system and secretion system will be destroyed. The brain maintains a good function, and not eating at all is not good for physical health.”

   She then asked, "And have you looked in the mirror after losing weight? Your figure is very good, and you don't need to use such extreme means to lose weight."

  Liang Yiyi fell into thinking. After a long while, she said, "When I was close to 100 jins, my coach and classmates said that I looked good when I lost weight."

  Sometimes she looks at the person in the mirror, and she also thinks it's okay, it's almost there.

   She happily went to the mall and asked the clerk to help choose a bunch of beautiful new clothes from head to toe.

   after changing.

   She felt that she had a new look and became a beautiful woman with a good figure.

   When she was shopping in her new clothes, many people around her couldn't help but admire her, and she herself was very happy.

   But when she came home in new clothes in the afternoon to see her husband.

   He frowned at the first sight of her, "Yiyi, why would you buy this kind of clothes, this kind of clothes doesn't suit you at all, it looks really ugly."

He went on to say: "please, have a little brains, and next time you go shopping, tell me in advance, don't go to the mall and be fooled by those salesmen, who specially choose the inappropriate ones for you, you always wear clothes. There are no rules."

   After listening to her husband's words, Liang Yiyi was very hurt and felt extremely embarrassed.

  Clearly wearing clothes that make her feel happy and confident in the afternoon, why are they degraded to nothing in the eyes of her husband?

Thinking back to what she saw in the mirror in the shopping mall in the afternoon, she tried to argue for herself, "I look in the mirror and think it looks good, this dress is the latest style, and these are very popular this year, do you think I'm wearing this very well? Show your waist?"

   However, her husband seemed to give her one more look and couldn't stand it.

   He looked at her with a very disapproving look, "Yiyi, am I going to lie to you?"

   "Do the people who sell clothes know you, or do I know you better?"

   The last sentence, he almost shouted out.

   "After shouting, he went upstairs with a flick of his hand and ignored me. He looked very angry." Tears flowed from Liang Yiyi's eyes, "I feel very confused."

"I actually like my new clothes, and I think they're pretty good--but, maybe my husband really thinks it's ugly?!" She looked at Ning Youguang and said, "My husband has such good taste, I think I might be wrong. shopping guide."

   "What about yourself?" Ning Youguang asked, "Do you think those clothes look good?"

   "I don't know." Liang Yiyi said, "Anyway, that night, I went back to my room and put all the new clothes I bought in the afternoon into the bottom of the closet, and I never took them out and wore them again."

  Under the long-term mental control of her lover, Liang Yiyi has already developed a wrong perception of her own ugliness or beauty.

   "Can you tell me about Lele's father? I still remember how you looked when you got married. You were very handsome."

"My husband is very handsome." Liang Yiyi showed a girl-like expression, "The facial features are very good-looking, especially the eyes, when he looked at me, my whole body was about to sink in, as if I was the only one in the world. one person."

She said, "And he is very romantic. Every holiday, he will prepare carefully, prepare gifts, champagne, flowers, and take me to a hotel with a good environment. He often prepares surprises. He is a person who is very good at life. My ideal type."

Ning Youguang waited for her to finish, and asked softly, "It does sound like a very attractive man." She said, "It's rare to see such a perfect person, doesn't he make you feel bad? "

  Liang Yiyi thought for a while, "If I do something wrong, his temper will become bad, and he is very angry."

   "It will also be cold and violent."

   "This is what I don't like."

   She said in frustration, "But these are all because I did something wrong in the first place, and he was only angry."

   "Has he often told you that you did something wrong?" Ning Youguang asked.

"Yes." Liang Yiyi said sadly, "He often told me 'Don't you think you did something wrong?', 'Why can't you do this well? What can you do? You can't do this, you can't find a way yourself, can't you think about it?'..." 1314

   Learn to recognize pua!

  

  

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