Chapter 327 Why did you post on the Moments?

   Carefully flipped through the content posted by the **** her personal self-media account.

   watched silently for a while—

   She wanted to say: "The collapse of this girl's character is inevitable."

   Judging from the content she posted, her previous popularity was based on the traffic attracted by a female image that seemed to have high self-worth, and she was a winner as soon as she appeared.

  This has led to the image of her personal life displayed on the Internet, which can only always be a winner, never a loser.

   To always win and not lose, the only situation is that her real situation is consistent with her image displayed on the online platform, otherwise she will collapse sooner or later.

  Being bound by this person, she didn't realize that her own personal situation did not have the right to choose to be dominant no matter where she was, as shown to netizens at all.

  Because the personal information she only shows to the netizens, all the high values ​​are false castles in the air.

   As long as there is a loophole in her, she will lose the whole game.

   What's more, she's a loophole, she's just a piece of rag, which can be shattered with a little tear, and can't stand scrutiny at all.

A girl who gains a sense of self-worth through external conditions such as beauty, superior family conditions, a luxurious life, or the charisma that men like to pursue, and who can make herself popular on the Internet actually reflects on the other hand. There may be some problems with the value sustenance of women at present.

   These netizens who like to watch her life, on the one hand, envy her for wanting to live like her, on the other hand, watching her personal life will also make most ordinary girls feel endless anxiety, which can be described as contradictory and distorted.

   In real life, people who want to improve their sense of self-worth through these foreign objects often fail to know the truth of a universe, that is—

"The people and the environment outside are always changing. Today you may be able to win Xiaohong who has worse conditions than you, and tomorrow you may lose to Xiaolu who has better conditions than you. The only constant in this world is Variety."

  People's anxiety and stress also often stem from a sense of powerless control over life and endless comparisons.

   The most painful thing for this girl is that her own real state has no way of being as powerful as she has shown.

  So, when her real situation was revealed, she couldn't take such a blow at all.

   Let yourself fall into the false character set that you created for yourself and cannot extricate yourself. While driving yourself to a dead end, you also fall into a split because you don’t accept your real situation, resenting your parents and dragging them into the dark abyss.

   Through her situation, Ning Youguang thought that there are actually many people online with the same lifestyle as her.

  The living state of such people is actually very dangerous, but because of wrong values ​​and cognitive guidance, they often go into even more dangerous situations, and finally fall into misery.

   So, if this girl is really willing to come to see her, she is also willing to show her.

   The premise is that she herself is willing to accept the change!

   After reading this girl's information, Ning Youguang couldn't help but post a Weibo——

  [An ordinary person: When we share our beautiful travels, romantic dates, or receive extravagant gifts in our circle of friends, have we ever questioned ourselves for a moment: Why should I post these content? ]

   (end of this chapter)