Chapter 359 If you want to understand others, first understand yourself

   Jincheng, the Xia family.

  Xia Fei with a big belly leaned on the sofa, and said to Ning Youguang with an anxious face, "Pregnancy really takes a lot of hairline."

   "Well, I see." Ning Youguang sat while eating snacks.

   She eats Jincheng's famous dim sum - Longjing Tea Cake.

  Tea Crisp is green throughout, with distinct layers of meringue. A fragrance of Longjing tea wraps broken egg yolks. A bite of the meringue is delicate, and the fresh and rich aroma of Longjing tea is refreshing.

  Crispy glutinous and soft taste, full of Longjing tea fragrance, refreshing but not greasy, it is the taste that Ning Youguang has eaten since he was a child.

   Therefore, every time she returned to Jincheng, her aunt would carefully prepare it for her.

  "..." Xia Fei gritted her teeth angrily, "Can you help me read the hair problem first before eating snacks?"

   "No." Ning Youguang said, "Anyway, after you give birth, your hair will grow back, so just pay for it now."

   "Fuck you." Xia Fei stretched out her foot and kicked her, "I see that after you are pregnant, every time you wash your head at the crime scene, will you still be as calm as you are now?"

   "No." Ning Youguang said calmly.

"that is……"

   "I said it wouldn't be as bad as your hair loss when I was pregnant."

  Xia Fei originally felt a little more balanced in her heart, but she fell back with anger when she added it completely.

   She picked up the pillow next to her and smashed it on her, "Let's talk big after you're done giving birth."

   "You take it easy." Ning Youguang dodged sideways and chuckled, "Pregnant is not honest, be careful with prenatal education."

   Then, she added, "I'm not talking big, I'm talking about accurate predictions."

  Xia Fei was so frightened that she quickly lowered her head and gently touched her stomach.

   said pretentiously across his belly and the baby in his belly, "I'm sorry, baby, my mother didn't mean to speak foul language, you must not learn it."

   Coaxed the cub in her stomach a few more times before she looked at Ning Youguang again, her eyebrows raised, "Who made you mad at me!"

   "Yes, I'm angry with you." Ning Youguang finished the Longjing tea cake in his hand, and then took up the teacup to drink tea, with an elegant and picturesque posture.

   choked Xia Fei to death.

   After a long while, she asked again, "Why are you so adamant that your pregnancy won't cause such serious hair loss? Do you have any secret?"

  Ning Youguang smiled, "I told you earlier that pregnancy will cause hair loss, so I haven't been mentally prepared yet."

   "How did I know it would be so severe." Xia Fei died speechlessly, "Grandpa gave me a few dietary prescriptions, and I won't be able to use them."

  Ning Youguang continued to drink tea, "Oh."

  Xia Fei was anxious when she saw her indifferent look, "Just tell me, is there any way you can help me fix it?"

  Ning smiled slyly, "Yes."

   "What is it?" Xia Fei was excited.

   "Go to bed before ten o'clock every night." Ning Youguang looked serious.

  "..." Xia Fei was like a discouraged quail, "What kind of secret is this!"

"Why doesn't it count?" Ning Youguang raised his eyebrows, "How many mothers are like you? It's not honest when you are pregnant, you go to bed after twelve o'clock every night, be careful that your son will be born every night after twelve o'clock. Go to bed after midnight, and then you'll have fun."

  Xia Fei was stunned, "You can tell it's your son too?"

   "Well." Ning Youguang said, "Grandpa also said it was his son?"

  Xia Fei nodded sadly, "Yes, my grandfather came out when I was just pregnant."

   She wanted a sweet and soft daughter, and did not expect the birth of a boy.

   Then, she asked, "I'm going to bed late now, will my son like to go to bed late?"

   "There is a high probability of this." Ning Youguang said, "It is not 100% certain."

   "Then let me adjust my schedule." Xia Fei thought that after the cub was born, she would go to bed after twelve o'clock every night, and she felt that she would go crazy by then.

   "It's good to be enlightened." Ning Youguang likes to hear that she makes a change.

  Xia Fei asked melancholy again, "Yes, is there really no way for me to lose my hair?"

  Ning nodded lightly, "Yes."

   "What is it?" Xia Fei looked suspicious.

   "Let me share a little secret with you." Ning Youguang put down the teacup in his hand, seeing the skepticism on Xia Fei's face growing stronger, and quickly assured, "It's the real secret."

   "You said." Xia Fei then pricked up her ears seriously.

   "Every time you wash your hair, don't wash your scalp with shampoo directly, then massage the roots with water and white vinegar, and then wash your hair with shampoo." Ning Youguang said.

   "Really?" Xia Fei couldn't believe it, "Is it that simple?!

   "You won't know if it works if you try it." Ning Youguang smiled.

   "Okay." Xia Fei touched her forehead, "I'll try it when I go back tonight."

   After talking about her most concerned issue, Xia Fei finally had the heart to care about the other party, "Why didn't you bring hours back to celebrate the New Year this time?"

  Ning Youguang said, "We're not married again, so of course we won't bring him back for the New Year."

   "Now it's not taboo, he spent the New Year at our house last year." Xia Fei curled her lips, "You have the heart to let him spend the New Year alone in the capital?"

   "There's nothing wrong with celebrating the New Year alone." Ning Youguang said, "The New Year itself is not something particularly worthy of celebration."

   "What kind of fallacy are you talking about?!" Xia Fei didn't understand.

   "Because the arrival of the New Year also means that everyone is one year closer to death." Ning Youguang sighed.

   "..." Xia Fei was stunned, but after thinking about it, she thought she was right.

   But once she agrees with her words, she will not be able to raise expectations and happiness for this New Year at all.

   is simply melancholy and trouble.

   In the end, she could only sigh, "Don't say such things during the New Year, you will be beaten."

   is too unlucky.

   "I know." Ning Youguang nodded, "The vast majority of people in this world like to live and deceive themselves."

   "You're right." Xia Fei almost worshipped Ning Youguang.

   The two chatted a few more times.

  Xia Fei talked about her husband, "I sometimes feel that I don't understand him very well, especially when we've been together for a long time, I find there are many things about him that I haven't seen before."

   "Of course." Ning Youguang said, "Human nature is complex and changeable. If you always use your inherent cognition to look at him, it will definitely not work."

  Xia Fei nodded, "You're right, I still have to think about it, don't be framed by fixed concepts."

   She added, "It's not easy, because it's too easy for people to fall into inherent cognition. Do you have any good advice for me on this one?"

Ning Youguang said, "If you really want to get to know him, and you think getting to know him is good for both of you, then my advice to you is that you'd better get to know yourself first, because each of us What it feels like to see others is part of what we know and want to see." 1314

   Today is Hour's birthday, the stupid author will send 257 red envelopes on this site and wish Hour's birthday to all the little angels!

  

  

   (end of this chapter)