Chapter 368 Past and Present

  Since it will not harm his own interests, and he is a master with real background and strength, he is a wise person who knows to treat her as his own, and must not stand against her.

   "That's right." Kim So-yeon sneered.

After a long while, she sneered softly again, "The daughter-in-law of the Zhang family, the second child of the Li family, their faces turned so fast, they didn't even look at the surnamed Zhuang before, but now I see that she has the trump card of Ning Youguang. , I just stick to it with my face, really, wherever there are flowers, there are them."

   "Isn't that Zhuang Yijing's ability to curry favor with the lady of the Shangning family?"

  Jin Jiayi also pondered in her heart, and she would go to say hello to Miss Ning and the upstart Zhuang later.

   Jin Suyan saw that her aunt was not listening carefully to her, so she turned to look at her boyfriend next to her, only to find that he was also looking at Zhuang Yijing.

   A handsome and three-dimensional face, the expression on his face is a kind of deepness that she can't see through.

   She smiled and said, "Awei, do you think those women look funny?"

  Xu Wei lowered his head and took a sip of wine, "Really?"

   The expression on his face lightened.

  Kim Soyeon didn't notice the slight change in expression on his face, and continued to smile, "Yeah."

  Xu Wei turned to look at her, there were many things in her eyes that she could not understand.

  Kim Soyeon felt weird at the sight of him, but she couldn't think of why.

  …

   After all Bai Fumei dispersed.

  Zhuang Yijing smiled and said to Ning Youguang, "Thanks to you, I'm afraid I will have endless appointments in the future."

  Ning Youguang pursed his lips and smiled, "If you like it, go, and if you don't like it, push it."

"That's the only way." Zhuang Yijing said lazily, "It's not like they don't have to go to work. I spend all day on socializing. I have money, looks and leisure. I'm as busy as I am. The cattle workers of the production team can't mix with them at all."

  Ning Youguang burst out laughing, "Everyone has their own way of living, you don't have to force it."

Zhuang Yijing also laughed, "Indeed, although they don't seem to have to go to work, I really don't envy them at all, I can't live a day like this, thinking about how big they are, how can they live a lifetime? ?"

   She didn't understand.

  Ning Youguang said, "You'd better be a rich woman who concentrates on mining to make more use of your strengths."

  Zhuang Yijing laughed, "I just like to make money, and getting money is my motivation to work until twelve o'clock every day."

  Ning Youguang nodded. After a long while, he said softly, "It's not easy for them."

  Zhuang Yijing was a little stunned, "What's wrong with them? Every day, they can eat, drink, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy, buy and buy, everyone can live."

"Eat, drink, buy, buy, and buy, although everyone can do it, the results obtained by each person are different from the goals they want to achieve." Ning Youguang said slowly, "The most real happiness in life is never from eating and drinking. You get it from the superficial desire to wear and buy, but from restraint, self-discipline, diligence, and the satisfaction of getting things done today, you are happier than they actually lived."

"You're right, but I don't know if they live happily or not, and I don't care." Zhuang Yijing curled his lips with disdain on his face, "I just don't understand that they live so shallowly, yet still It's funny to look down on me, a down-to-earth and hard-working workaholic, what are they so good at in front of me? Apart from having a good background, what else can compare to me?"

   She went on to say, "Today they invited me to participate in their activities because I was on a good relationship with you. When did I, Zhuang Yijing, be treated by their eldest ladies before?"

  Ning Youguang gently touched the top of Zhuang Yijing's head and said with a smile, "Baby has been wronged, be good, don't be angry."

"I'm not angry, I know what I am like, and what they think of me, I don't care at all." Zhuang Yijing couldn't help but raise the corner of his mouth, "I don't have their elegance or noble birth, but I rely on myself. With their brains and hands to conquer the world, they are much more confident than they are, and whoever despises who is not necessarily."

  Ning Youguang smiled and looked at Zhuang Yijing with pride, "You are excellent, you can create more value for the society than them, so I say you are more happy than them."

  Zhuang Yijing boasted that it was okay, but Ning Youguang felt a little embarrassed.

   She laughed for a while, and then said softly, "They are not useless, at least they are versatile, they can sing and dance, drink tea, drink wine, ride horses, ski, and golf, and they are all very good."

Ning Youguang said, "Yeah, so I said it's not easy for them. Although they don't work, it doesn't mean they don't work hard. It's just that the direction of their efforts and the things involved are different from ours, but the hard work is similar. "

  Zhuang Yijing touched his chin, "Listening to you, it seems that they are indeed not easy. They know so much, and it really takes a lot of time and effort to learn."

  Ning nodded lightly, "That's it."

  Zhuang Yijing saw her delicate and tranquil face, and suddenly asked curiously, "How did you live before?"

   "We?" Ning Youguang was taken aback.

   "That's right." Zhuang Yijing said, "You, like them, are both eldest young ladies. The way you grew up and the things you learned when you were young should be similar, right?"

Ning Youguang turned her eyes slightly, thought about it and said, "I'm a little different from them, my parents divorced early, my childhood was relatively free, my grandparents, aunts and aunts were very accepting, and I was the one who took interest classes since I was a child. I can do whatever I want, so I didn't study as hard as they did, and I had a much easier time than them when I was a kid."

   "Is that so?" Zhuang Yijing said in surprise, "I just said, why is your eldest lady so different."

   Then, she laughed again, "I'm just curious how the process of growing up a lady's daughter is different from that of ordinary people like us. It seems that I asked the wrong person."

  Ning Youguang hooked his lips and smiled without speaking.

   I thought to myself, my friend actually asked the wrong person.

   As a model among the famous ladies in Jincheng in her previous life, she knows too well the process of growing and learning these ladies and daughters since childhood.

   Therefore, she can understand their difficulty.

  Thinking of this, Ning Youguang inevitably came up in his mind some things he had experienced in his previous life before he was a minor.

   At that time, although she also lived with her parents since she was a child, the relationship between her parents was so bad that her grandparents were afraid that they would teach bad children, so they strongly intubated her education.

  Under the control of her grandparents, she inevitably lived the life that the so-called "Miss Qianjin" should live.

   She began to learn ballet at the age of four, the cello, sketching and oil painting at the age of six, tea ceremony and incense ceremony at the age of ten, and figure skating and horse riding when she was older.

   may also be due to the fact that the grandparents were so disappointed and dissatisfied with her parents that they were particularly strict with her tutoring.

  There are many rules and etiquettes, speech and behavior, various aspects, such as academic performance, various certificates, going out to socialize and attending events, as small as knocking on the door and entering the door, sitting and standing.

   Grandma said, "Miss Qianjin should have a decent appearance and figure, as well as good knowledge."

   Therefore, she was never allowed to drink and eat snacks, and she strictly controlled her test scores at school.

   She remembered that when she was a child, she was often told by her grandmother that something went wrong when you were eating, sitting, walking, talking, or talking.

  When her parents got divorced, the relatives and elders around her always showed a kind of pity and confidence when they saw her.

   And she will find that this probably stems from her low self-esteem, which is another personality she has drawn up since she was a child in a family environment with a bad parental relationship.

  So, she felt that life was a very tiring and painful thing very early on, even if she was surrounded by bodyguards, nanny, and drivers.

   Although Zhuang Yijing is her good friend, she has to be fair. Like Miss Li, they don't look down on her, and it is not arrogant and malicious for no reason that she is an upstart.

Because, upbringing is a habit that everyone cultivates since childhood, from the details of a person's speech, even gestures... These all require the harmony of various conditions to develop, it is difficult for people to change in a short time, and it is difficult for people to short-term It is learned in time.

   In her last life, she grew up like this.

   As expected by grandparents, she has become a beautiful junior who is praised by the elders in the circle, and is often published in magazines, and her excellent articles have also been left on the forum.

   She has received a lot of compliments. No matter what occasion she attends, she is exquisite and lovely. Grandparents and aunts also value her, but she is not happy.

   Even though a lot of daily life is said now, many people will complain too much about Versailles, but she really just feels more and more lonely, feels like a clown, like a marionette.

   When she goes to many social occasions, she feels very boring.

  The most interesting thing in her childhood memory was that a tutor took her to raise sunflowers.

  From past life to present life, she doesn't like socializing.

   She is fortunate in her life that she can choose her own way of life.

   But in her previous life, she was always unable to refuse the demands and expectations of her family, so she had to accept the many social activities they expected her to go to.

   At that time, as long as she promised her family members to attend social activities in principle, she was required to make no mistakes in the social field.

   She twisted her will, endured the torment in her heart, and successfully completed the task again and again.

  Fortunately, she has a fairly smart brain, and she can receive countless praises and applause every time, which makes her family feel satisfied and relieved, but she only feels hypocrisy.

   She deeply remembers that in her previous life, when she was twelve years old, once she interjected in a public place, she was sternly cleaned up by her grandmother when she returned home. It was ridiculous and sad, and she did not understand.

   But since that day, she no longer likes to talk, and the more lively the occasion, the less like to talk.

   During the few years she was abroad, she began to experience happiness. Even if she was wandering alone, she was very relaxed and free from restraint and had more freedom.

   Later, she began to get in touch with psychology, and after she began to grow herself, did she know how to reject others, how to heal herself, and how rare life is.

  As a human being, she must not base her happiness and expectations on others, otherwise she will never get the happiness and happiness she wants.

   Only then did he slowly adjust his deformed life to the right path.

   So, she began to experience true happiness and freedom.

  …

   "Sister, you are too modest. If you are an ordinary person, what am I? Am I a beggar?" Although Zhuang Jianxian was playing games, it did not prevent him from being distracted and listening to the elder sister and the fairy sister chatting.

   "Yes." Zhuang Siqi also took the phone, "As long as you know how to make money, you can beat all the skills they know, okay?"

   "Yes!" Zhuang Jianxian said proudly, "And what if they look down on us for being inelegant and connotative? It doesn't stop them from kneeling and licking you at all."

  Zhuang Siqi agrees with his brother's words very much, "Yes, you are much stronger than them, there is no need to wonder how they lived when they were young. The most important thing in life is to look forward, and the one who has the last laugh is the king!"

"You told us that." Zhuang Jianxian leaned over to Zhuang Yijing and said with a smile, "You work so hard, not 10% stronger than others, but 1000% stronger. Because it's useless for you to be stronger than others, really What is useful is that you are much stronger than others. When you stand on the top of the mountain, you can be the top of the mountain, and you can see all the mountains. When you stand on the 1st floor, someone scolds you, and you get angry when you hear it. When you stand on the 10th floor, someone scolds you. You, you can't hear very well, and you thought someone was greeting you. You were standing on the 100th floor, and someone scolded you, and you couldn't see or hear. There was that time, do things right, and run all the way! Until they You can't even see your back, you have to use 1% of your life to win 99% of the gangsters."

   "Congratulations, you have perfectly used your strength to hit these ladies in the face." Zhuang Siqi clapped his hands happily.

  Zhuang Yijing was amused by the words of the Zhuang family's twins, "Thank you, you look at me like that."

Ning Youguang stared at his girlfriend who couldn't hide his happiness in his eyes even though he was respectful and thankful, and praised, "You are amazing, it's really amazing that you can learn a lot of skills by yourself, but what I admire most is your ability to The person who brings a skill to the extreme, you are."

   "Don't give me ecstasy soup!" Zhuang Yijing put on a pretty face, "I will be proud."

She said, "Pride makes people lag behind, humility makes people progress, what I'm doing now is still far from my goal, so you can't blow me rainbow farts so quickly, then I'll fall with pride, and there will be no more What do you do if you work hard?"

   "OKOKOK." The three people on the field immediately said obediently, "We won't boast, you work hard, we'll be waiting to hug your thighs."

  Zhuang Yijing didn't hold back and smiled again. 1314

   This chapter briefly explains the experiences of childhood and youth in previous life.

  

  

   (end of this chapter)