Mr. Kang is very interested in this kind of group outing, and he is extremely excited just to say it.

It was like a primary school student who had just been notified that the school was going to a spring outing. He couldn't wait to call the farmer and ask them to prepare him for a spring outing... No, it was for camping.

Yue Qin retracted his gaze and couldn't bear to keep watching.

In the evening, Xia Sheng applied a mask while listening to her husband sigh...

sigh!

Xia Sheng turned his head back abruptly, and the mask fell off: "Husband? What's the matter?" Her husband was very optimistic and hardly sighed.

Moreover, this time can be said to be the happiest time. The Art Center is no longer troublesome. She can make money while playing the piano. There is no problem with her husband’s company, and there is a labor force at home, which can not only help wash the dishes. , And can help them when they can’t go to the kindergarten to pick up people.

Could it be something she didn't know?

"Why are you sighing suddenly?"

At this time, Yue Qin told Xia Sheng what happened during the day, mainly about the farm. In fact, this incident was just a fuse.

It raises the real problem.

"Can we really do not interfere with the child's life in the future? Even if his behavior is wrong in our eyes, can we not force him to change it?"

In fact, the biggest problem is that sometimes parents may not be able to see everything in their eyes, after all, parents are just human beings.

But the child violates his parents' values ​​and worldview. Can he really let go of his choice?

Yue Qin had never doubted before, and even the young couple naively felt that when the children grew up, they would definitely feel relieved.

After listening to Xia Sheng, he laughed all of a sudden, and said, "Little Treasure is different from Dabao. Dabao stayed with us for too short time. Xiaobao grew up next to us, and he will definitely be a good boy in the future. "

Xia Shengte is confident, Xiaokangkang is very smart and respects others, and there is nothing wrong with it.

Yue Qin asked: "When you see that what Kang Yue did is not in line with your ideas, can you not interfere with it forcibly?"

Xia Sheng thought for a while, obviously couldn't.

Yue Qin said: "We have only taken him for less than 4 months, and we have become accustomed to controlling him. We hope that he will walk on the right path that we feel. He is already an adult."

Isn't this what all parents are doing? Even if the child grows up, he still doesn't realize that the other person has grown up, and still feels that the other person is still a child.

There are no boundaries.

Xia Sheng suddenly thought of a picture in his mind. The grown-up child would want to do something, but he would not let him do it, and stubbornly felt that he was right, forcing the other party to follow his own.

... Isn't this her grandmother and her mother?

Her grandmother could not understand her mother, why her mother had to divorce? What do people think of women after a divorce?

And her mother can't understand her, why do you want to be a girl so much?

The separation between the two generations seems to be the Great Rift Valley, even if they are close to them, they cannot hear what the other side is saying.

And the responsibility of a generation seems to be to send the next generation to the next new era, watching them go to that era they don't understand, staying in the old era, anger and pain.

Xia Sheng fell on the bed, turned his head, sighed, and became the Yue Qin ten minutes ago.

Parenting is really difficult. Xia Sheng, who has been a parent for four years, suddenly thought of two other people.

Xia Sheng suddenly turned his head and asked: "Husband, how did your parents do it?"

To be honest, her parents-in-law and mother-in-law do not meet the requirements of this society for the older generation.

They really rarely interfere with Yue Qin's choice. After graduating from university, Yue Qin said to stay in this city with her, and they agreed.

They also come to visit them every year, but in fact they never thought about staying permanently. When they gave birth, others said why not let their mother-in-law take care of her?

Yue Qin said that his mother was not a carer before, and Xia Sheng was not used to living with her elders, so Yue Qin took care of their mother and son alone.

This is about to be replaced by ordinary parents, and it is estimated that they will die of anxiousness, and I can't wait to handle everything with one hand.

Xia Sheng said, "How did they do it?"

"I'll call them to ask." Yue Qin was also curious.

Yue Qin took out his cell phone and called his father.

Xia Sheng listened intently, and soon Yue Qin asked this question--

"Dad, have I done anything that you think is wrong when I grow up?"

The person on the other end was stunned for a moment, and seemed to be asking another person: "Wife, what is the secret sign of the family crisis that we had agreed upon before?"

Yue Qin said: "Dad, the secret signal of the family crisis is whether the fruits of grandpa's house are ripe? We actually don't have a grandpa."

The man on the other end said: "Then you really want to ask? You are not in danger, why do you suddenly ask this kind of question?"

"I found that if my child grows up, I will still judge what he does according to my standards, and then I can't help but want him to correct it." Yue Qin said.

"How would you face this situation?"

Xia Sheng held his breath and listened carefully--

"You can be more specific."

"I should have made no major mistakes, just take my brother as an example."

Xia Sheng: "..." Brother.

The man at the other end said: "Your brother improperly put a civil servant on him, so he ran to be a little actor. In my opinion and your mother's view, his behavior is that his brain was kicked by a donkey."

The person on the other end is very open-minded: "We can't do anything to force him to come back as a civil servant? We only need to say a few words. All the roads in the future will be taken by him alone. His path should go beyond his own. Style, instead of repeating the way I and your mother did."

"Everyone thought we shouldn't go to the city back then, including your grandpa."

"The biggest fortune for your mother and I is that we insisted on our own path. Sometimes your mother and I hope that you can disagree with our opinions and stick to it."

Yue Qin suddenly realized that what kind of person he wanted the other party to be, in fact, only need to say a word, but all other things need the other party to bear the consequences.

"Raising a child is like making wine. You do everything you need to do in the early stage. Fermentation is the child's own business."

After finishing the call, the young couple couldn't recover for a long time. After a while, the young couple who had been their parents for four years looked at each other.

Xia Sheng: "Your brother was admitted as a civil servant!"

Yue Qin: "We should give them more space."

The two spoke almost at the same time, and Yue Qinle said, "What is your concern?"

Xia Sheng: "I also listened to what he said, and I hope that the two Kangkangs can walk a different path from ours."

Xia Sheng suddenly realized that she was gone now, a completely different path from her mother and her grandmother.

Mr. Kang got up early the next morning. The first thing he did was to come here to wait for breakfast. It would take a while. Mr. Kang didn't treat himself as an outsider and turned out the glutinous rice made by the big dad in the kitchen.

Then, he found that something was wrong.

Wait, something seems wrong? Where is it?

President Kang suddenly realized, oh, when he came by himself, it was the same as yesterday.

The first thing is to drink mash.

However, the violent mother took a look, and was completely unprepared to pat him on the head like yesterday, saying that he was lazy, and it was obvious that the heat would be very fast, but he had to eat cold.

In the past, he listened and went to heat up the glutinous rice.

What's going on today?

Mr. Kang couldn't eat anymore.

Did he do something wrong?