When I got married, my mother lion opened her mouth and asked for a 200,000 bride price. Because my husband’s family just bought a wedding room for us with the down payment, and there is also a banquet, I tried to discuss with my mother if I could give us less. But my mother insisted on this number, and her husband's family didn't say anything. Maybe it was because she didn't want the happy event to be unhappy and left, and later gathered enough for my mother's family.

I later blamed my mother for embarrassing me like this, and how I will get along with my husband's family in the future. But my mother said that the reason she was to be this ugly person was for me. She said that she would put most of the money in the card, as a dowry to me, and said that I would have some money in my husband’s hands. Do things also have enough confidence. It turned out that everything was for my sake. Although she didn't think it was necessary for her, she was also moved by the thoughtfulness of her mother.

After marrying her husband, my mother-in-law has always been worried about our family's excessive beauties. She always talks intentionally or unconsciously, and always ridicules me, saying that my family sells daughters or something, which makes me very distressed. It may be that I am also relatively weak in character, and I can't be as straightforward as my mother. Holding the money in my hand not only does not make me feel at ease, but it makes me feel like I am wrong. So every time my mother-in-law provokes me in various ways, I take a calm attitude and choose to forbear.

But my forbearance didn’t get my mother-in-law’s forgiveness. Her dissatisfaction with me escalated. I finally told me that my mother actually deposited most of the gift money in the bank card after I was unbearable. Brought me the dowry. After my mother-in-law knew about this, she didn't pick me up again, and sometimes even took the initiative to show her favor to me. This makes me feel a little flattered, and I regret why I didn't tell it earlier? My mother was right. If she had some money, her husband's attitude would be better.

In this way, my life at my in-laws' house is much easier. Later, the uncle was also getting married, and the woman also asked to buy a house first. During that time, my mother-in-law was always very kind to me. She asked her warmly. Not long after, she asked me to help my uncle with a down payment. Although I was very unhappy in my heart, I was used to being weak in front of her. I was afraid that I would refuse. The days before will be as sad as cynicism all day, so he reluctantly smiled and agreed.

When I went to help my uncle look at the house with my husband's family that day, my mother-in-law reminded me to remember to bring the card. Everyone looked at it for a day and decided to buy one of them. When I paid the down payment, I gave the card to the staff and entered the password according to the prompt, but the staff told me that the balance was insufficient. At that time, everyone was stupid. I was in a panic. When my mother gave me the card, I kept it at home and never took it out for consumption.

Later, everyone reminded me to go to the bank's self-service teller machine to check the balance. My mother-in-law followed me. When the balance in the card was only a few thousand yuan, my mother-in-law gave me a blue face and left. Later, the house was not bought, and everyone broke up angrily. When I got home, I was scolded by my mother-in-law like a sinner, saying that I had never thought I was such a scheming person.

My mother-in-law slobbed my face and ran back to my natal home with tears to find my mother. I blamed my mother with aggrieved expressions and put me in such an embarrassing situation. My mother seemed to breathe a sigh of relief suddenly, and repeatedly said that fortunately, she thought about it a step further and didn't deposit the money in my card. She knew that with my temperament, I would definitely not be able to hide things, and that money would be calculated by my in-laws sooner or later. At this time, she took out another card. Before giving it to me, she carefully asked me to tell me about the treatment I received in my husband’s house over the years, and then I wondered whether it was worth the money to buy a house for my uncle. .

After my mother's call, I calmed down and recalled that these young mothers had different attitudes towards myself because of the money, and I was really chilling. It seems that my mother is still shrewd. Even though I was a daughter, I should learn from her so wise, and then go back and fight the wicked mother-in-law.