"Yes," Qu Yan admitted frankly. She also knew that she couldn't tell a lie in front of Qin Yi, and said straight, "This is clothes for me before I sighed. I am divorced now, but I didn't expect that there was no time to pay. Give it to him, it’s been delayed until now."

Qin Yi nodded, "It turned out to be the case, so I said, after my female colleague talked about clothes, why are you uncomfortable? At first, I was worried that you care about them. If it's just because of the clothes, I would do it myself. Sigh of relief."

As he said, he made a breathless gesture.

Qu Yan smiled, and then said, "It has nothing to do with you. It's just that I just found out about wearing the wrong clothes, and I feel uncomfortable."

"Then how uncomfortable you are, can you be more specific? In fact, in the field of psychology, there is a phrase called seeing is healing, which means that if you are aware of the problem, you are already on the road to solve the problem, so When you have feelings in your heart, you must describe them as concretely as possible. This will allow you...continuous growth." Qin Yi said seriously.

His attitude made Qu Yan relax a bit, so she continued,

"I don't know what's wrong with me. I have already separated from him, but I always feel that the two people are still disconnected. I obviously don't want to see him anymore, but there are some problems and I have to talk to him again. Pulled together, like this dress, I don’t know if I chose it or it captured me."

capture.

When he said this word, Qu Yan himself was a little stunned.

This is not a common vocabulary, and she will never use such words often.

But now, she actually said it so without thinking.

Qin Yi nodded, and then said to her:

"Your feelings are actually correct. Sometimes, there is a capture relationship behind the relationship between some objects and people, such as advertising. If you consume and purchase after seeing the advertisement, then it means that you have been captured by the advertisement. This dress is already beautiful. It can attract you through your own good, and you will be attracted by it. This is a normal thing."

He said, but he finished.

Obviously, he has actually answered all her doubts.

He is not only talking about clothes "it", but also about "him".

Qu Yan realized this and couldn't help sighing.

"I know this is a normal thing, but I still feel wrong. He is not a good person. I have used my marriage career for several years to get this answer, so I insisted on separating at first, but did not expect that after separation... "

Having said that, she couldn't go on.

Qin Yi waited patiently for her to finish.

As he said, "seeing is healing", so what he encourages is that Qu Yan sees the problem by herself, so that no matter what happens in the future, she can help herself instead of standing in place and waiting for rescue.

At this time, Qu Yan himself saw more problems.

She said, "After we separated, I actually tried to contact other men, but they all felt that something was wrong."

In fact, she agreed to go to the bar with Fan Yuming that day, but she also had the idea of ​​getting to know him again.

Fan Yuming and her are already very familiar people. He has outstanding working ability and has a relationship with Mr. Yao before. In addition, he is also a smart person that Qu Yan admires. Therefore, when she was sad that day, she called Fan Yuming. Not at all thoughtless.

Unexpectedly, Ji Zhuoran strangled Ji Zhuoran as soon as the idea sprouted.

From the deliberate interference by the waiter in the bar, and then to the whole store to rush customers just to let them get along alone, he used the most overbearing way to make her aware of another point——

As long as he wants to, he can actually control everything at any time.

So she was very angry at that time.

But after being angry, she woke up again, so she decided at that time--

Since there is no way to get rid of him, use him first.

After all, she had missed too many things before Qu Shouquan was alive. After his death, she didn't want to miss his funeral because of the work that would never be finished.

But it is not a good habit to use him, because he is too willing to be used by her, just like this exquisite and beautiful dress on her, just waiting for it.

He stayed there, no matter how she moved, she would end up hitting the tree like the blind rabbit in the idiom, and then she would die.

Before he knew it, Qu Yan was so indulged in his thoughts.

Qin Yi was on the sidelines, quietly waiting for her to wake up from her thoughts.

It seems that love is such a dream. She can only wait for her to wake up, and the people next to her can't wake her up.