Chapter 868 There are still feelings

  "What should I do now?" Yu Yan lowered her head and her tears fell.

  Gu Zhennan glanced at the door, but it was difficult to get in, so he went to the children’s room silently.

   "What do you think now?" Guo Xiang took Yu Yan to sit down, took a handkerchief and wiped her tears.

   "I don't know..." Yu Yan shook her head.

   "If you really want to leave, talk to him." Guo Xiang said.

   "I..." Yu Yan raised her head, "But what about Xiao Jin? I can't live without him, but if he follows me, he won't have a father..."

  Guo Xiang sighed lightly. It is often the children who are injured by the adult divorce.

  Some people may say that many children from divorced families are equally good and excellent, but there are often more problematic children from divorced families.

  They may have grown up healthily, and maybe their work and life are no different from others, but their heart hurts often have a great impact on their future lives.

  Even the marriage of their parents will bring a great shadow to them and affect their view of marriage.

  A healthy family has a great effect on the growth of children.

  Family with loving parents, children are often happier and simpler, and they know how to love others.

  Family children whose parents do not love each other often do not know how to love others, do not know how to express their love, and sometimes even do extreme things.

  If it is the kind of family that quarrels and fights every day, divorce early may be better for the children.

  But the kind of family that is usually loving or normal, the parents divorced suddenly, the children generally can't accept it, and the study life will plummet.

  Some children even feel whether they are not doing well enough to cause their parents to divorce, and blame them all for their own faults and fall into self-blame.

  Especially an introverted child like An Jin, perhaps his parents’ divorce will be a big blow to him.

  Yu Yan does not divorce because she wants to maintain superficial harmony, so that her child thinks that her family is normal and does not want him to be affected.

  Some influences are not visible on the surface, but the changes are subtle. Perhaps the child's personality will become more gloomy, which Yu Yan does not want to see.

   "I just want to maintain this relationship, just as respectful as a guest!" Yu Yan said.

"But..." Guo Xiang deliberated how to say, "But An Rui is a normal man, he will need it, you..., cough, men will need to be stronger than women, if you want to keep doing this, I'm afraid he I can't stand it..."

  "What if he cheats again?" Guo Xiang asked.

  Yu Yan looked blank, "I, he..." She hadn't thought about such a thing at all.

"It’s been more than a year since the last incident. Think about it. You can’t live forever like this. Or you can accept him and slowly overcome the obstacles in your heart. Or you can divorce him and put yourself completely. Liberation..." Guo Xiang said.

   "It's not impossible if you want to maintain this way, but can it last a lifetime? You can bear it, he can't bear it..."

   "He can't stand it, so he should mention divorce first. Anyway, I will agree to it." Yu Yan said.

   "But, if he doesn't leave, he can't leave for the sake of his future, and then he goes to find another woman, do you have to bear it for a lifetime?" Guo Xiang frowned.

  "I, I don't know..." Yu Yan was at a loss, that would definitely not be possible, but she couldn't do it if she wanted to forgive him now.

  "Why don't you have a good talk with him? Let him give you some more time." Guo Xiang said.

  Yu Yan squeezed her finger nervously, "I don't know how to tell him..."

   "Then, do you want me to help you?" Guo Xiang asked.

   "But..." Yu Yan's eyes were lost, "I don't know what I want."

   "Then let him choose." Guo Xiang said, "I will tell him."

  Guo Xiang took Yu Yan by the hand, "I will accompany you over."

  Yu Yan's hand shrank, as if she was a little scared, Guo Xiang sighed lightly, is she now afraid that An Rui has reached this point?

  She felt it necessary for her to see a psychiatrist.

  Guo Xiang went to talk to Gu Zhennan, and he said: "I will accompany you over!"

  What if An Rui loses her temper to bad for the wife? He didn't want his wife to be hurt.

   "Okay!" Guo Xiang nodded, turned around to hold Yu Yan's hand, and buttoned her coat, "I'll tell him, let him choose, and when he makes a decision, you can decide whether to agree or not."

  Yu Yan let her hold hands mechanically, completely at a loss.

  The three people arrived at Yu Yan's house, opened the door, and An Rui walked out hurriedly upon hearing the movement.

   Seeing the three Guo Xiang, his brows frowned.

  Gu Zhennan walked to the front, and when he saw An Rui, who was hesitating, he became more vigilant in his heart.

  When Guo Xiang took Yu Yan’s hand and walked to her room, he patted her, "You go in first, and I will talk to your lover."

  Yu Yan looked at her, looked at An Rui again, touched his sharp eyes, and immediately lowered her head and her body shook.

   "I want to talk to you!" Guo Xiang faced An Rui.

  An Rui glanced at Yu Yan and then at Guo Xiang, nodding, "Go into the study!"

  Gu Zhennan wants to follow up, Guo Xiang stopped him, "You go to Xiaojin first, sit down and see him, don’t worry, he..."

  Guo Xiang glanced at An Rui, sneered, and squeezed his fist, "I can still handle it, although I haven't moved for a long time, but my skills are still there."

  Gu Zhennan glanced at An Rui, nodded, and turned to An Jin.

  An Rui looked at Guo Xiang in surprise. What does she mean, she still has kung fu?

  I really can’t see it.

  The two walked into the study, An Rui took a chair to Guo Xiang, and sat opposite her, "What do you want to talk about?"

   "Why don't you want to get a divorce?" Guo Xiang went straight ahead, "Is it because of your future? Or do you still have feelings for Yu Yan?"

  An Rui frowned and looked at her, "both!"

   "If you have feelings, why are you willing to hurt her?" Guo Xiang narrowed his eyes.

"I...that's what happened before, in fact..." An Rui's face was slightly red, and she seemed a little embarrassed, "Although I have liked others before and cheated, in fact, Yu Yan still has a lot of weight in my heart. Yes, it’s just that I don’t know it myself..."

   "I have thought a lot during this time, and I am not willing to leave her." An Rui sighed, and it was the first time that he said what was in his heart.

   "Then you still... love her?" Guo Xiang looked at An Rui.

"Yeah, I'm not sure..." An Rui looked melancholy, "Maybe this period of time allowed me to see my heart clearly. As for love... I don't know, but it must be emotional. If she leaves me after a divorce, her heart will hurt..."

   "But that incident hurt Yu Yan a lot." Guo Xiang said.

   "I know, so I want to make up and use the rest of my life to make up for her, but she doesn't seem to want to give me a chance." An Rui said.

   "Because you hurt her too deeply, she is afraid of getting hurt again. And you slept with other women, she has a heart knot, if it is you, can you accept her cheating?"

   "I..." An Rui was dumbfounded, of course he couldn't accept it.

  This is the case for people. The mistakes they make are not a big deal, but it’s unforgivable to switch to the other person.

  (End of this chapter)