The 80s Chronicle: Addiction To the Army’s Young Wife
Chapter 333: [Light up new skills]
At present, the children in the family have personal hobbies. Xie Yang insists on going the way of his father and being a glorious PLA soldier. Xie Huai seems to be interested in biochemistry and so on. He threatened to be a scientist in the future. Little Lemon prefers all kinds of musical instruments, and will probably follow the artistic route in the future.
Anyway, whoever has the worst achievements will have to go home and inherit the family business.
Thinking of Xu Ning in her previous life talking with people around her on the Internet that some people would have to go back and inherit hundreds of millions of families if they didn't work hard, she felt weird. Is there anything wrong with inheriting the family business? I can develop my own interests even after inheriting it.
Now the three children in his family will face this choice in the near future, and suddenly feel very excited.
If there are no surprises, the company will eventually fall on Xie Huai's shoulders, which may be more in line with his own company.
During the holidays, Xie Zheng was almost taking care of the three children. Now the three of them are going out for a walk. Brother Zheng and the old man will naturally follow. Xu Ning and Gao Xiulan sit at home and watch TV for a while, and then wait to cook. .
When Gao Xiulan and Xu Ning were together, they liked to talk about the gossip they heard in the neighborhood. This time they were talking about a family not far away. An old lady is in her 70s this year, and there are three sons and two below. All the daughters are married, but no one is willing to provide for the elderly. Every time they give some pension money or the old people have headaches, the five children are all excusing themselves to work. The community and women directors are constantly giving their children. When we do work, what we say is that it is not easy for an old mother to raise you up into a family, and you should be filial to her and so on.
In fact, in Xu Ning's view, he is not willing to be filial to his elders. This is really hard to persuade to turn around. Since it has spread, it is estimated that several children are too lazy to do superficial skills, anyway they know that they are not filial.
And if you really understand the parenting grace of your parents, you can experience it after you have a child, but after they get married, they simply ignore the old mother, it is completely unconscionable, and the only way is to prosecute. NS.
Obviously the old lady is not financially capable. She was filial a few years ago. It was because her wife hadn't died yet and she could receive a pension every month. Now that her wife is dead, the pension is probably also searched by her children. After being clean, the old lady naturally has no need for filial piety.
I have to say that this is really sad.
The sorrow of the elderly in modern society!
As long as they have some money in their hands, they want to supplement their children, but this kind of subsidy is risky. If you don’t have money in your hands, your children are very likely to not support you. If they are filial, they will also You won’t be in charge of your own house and still have to pay for your family’s pension with your parents. Young people are now in a new society. Even if you go to the construction site to move bricks, you can earn money for food and drink every month. As an adult People are still licking their faces and asking for money to subsidize the family. This is already unfilial in itself.
Xu Ning's thoughts are very clear, she will never let herself go to that point.
When the time comes, she will leave a large sum of money, plus the pension of brother Zheng, their later life will be very comfortable, as for the children, it depends on their own ability.
In the future, if you have grandchildren, you won’t be rushing to get your grandchildren. If you have that skill, it’s better to stroll around with your husband, or enjoy the rare leisure life of your old age at home. Who has that skill to wait for you three to grow up? , You still have to serve your children, can't you relax for a lifetime of hard work?
Tang Mingya met Lu Ci while attending a private party with her parents.
She usually spends most of her time at two points and one line, school and home. In order to make it easy to go to school, Tang Mingya bought a house in the middle of the Imperial University and the Imperial College of Foreign Languages, so that it is more convenient to travel between the two schools.
This time is the Chinese New Year. Because the Tang family has lived overseas for decades, they have a deeper affection for China than the people living here. Every New Year and the whole family must get together to celebrate. Yes, the Chinese New Year is the most solemn festival in China, so no one can be absent.
And around this kind of Spring Festival, it is also the most frequent time to communicate privately with relatives and friends.
This time I was attending the birthday banquet of my grandfather and old classmates. Because the Spring Festival is coming soon, the annual birthday banquet is for family members and a few very familiar friends, dragging the family to have a birthday banquet.
Lu Ci’s grandfather and the birthday star were in the same hometown, and Lu Ci’s family came to celebrate him. The Lu family had never been here before. This time, because of some accidental incident, Lu Ci’s father brought his wife and Lu Ci to the Han’s family. The heir is Han Chen, who didn't know until after chatting when he attended Xiao Qingxue's birthday banquet.
There was no business intersection between the two in the past. After all, they were in different fields. This time they just came to celebrate, and that's all.
"Miss Tang!" Lu Ci saw the girl two years younger than him, with a small smile in his eyes, "I'm not as well-known as seeing each other, Miss Tang really has an extraordinary appearance."
Tang Mingya was a little thoughtful, and praised her on this one. Isn't it a conspiracy? Although she knew Lu Ci's name, she had never exchanged it before. Tang Mingya almost never attended the big banquets in the imperial capital before the Tang family. Compared to these banquets, she would rather stay at school or at home to do translation work.
"Hello, Mr. Lu!" She stretched out her hand, shook the opponent politely, and then released it.
Lu Ci didn’t say anything. If he likes Tang Mingya, it’s really not good. Although this woman makes him feel impeccable regardless of her family background or her own abilities, feelings are the most important thing. His parents are enlightened and don’t need him. Marry a daughter-in-law who can help the company, he naturally doesn't have to force himself.
However, at the first glance of Tang Mingya, Lu Ci felt that she should be a good girl, and that she didn't have the temperament that was as pale as orchids and as clear as water.
After Mrs. Tang went to say hello to Old Man Han, she looked at Lu's resignation and smiled at Mother Lu: "Does your son have a partner?"
"I don't care about this, he can bring it back anytime." Mother Lu smiled like this on her face, but she didn't think so in her heart.
Xu Rui's child has been talking about it for several years. The kid in her family is still single, but in front of outsiders, can she take down her son's desk? I can only take pains to be broad-minded.
Mrs. Tang took a sip of tea, "I went to visit Mrs. Xu a year ago and learned that your family Lu Ci and Xu Rui are good friends. He also told me that Lu Ci is a very good child. If you don’t dislike it, you can Let the two children develop."
"Okay!" Mother Lu was overjoyed. Because the Tang family took their family with their mouths at the beginning of the new century, they gave up the huge industry that had been operating abroad for decades, and returned to China to participate in economic construction. This is considered a loyal family and in the circle. The reputation of Mr. Tang is very good. Mr. Tang is also one of the vice presidents of China Charity Foundation. The children who are confessed by this kind of family are certainly not bad.
At the same time, I also felt that Xu Rui's child was really caring. It must be what he and Mrs. Tang said.
Although the two mothers met with the children for the first time, they were also very engaged in talking.
Lu Ci occasionally looked at the two with a smile on his lips. He probably knew what they were talking about together.
Taking advantage of his free time, he took out his cell phone to send a text message to Lu Ci. When he saw that the other party had revealed some news, Lu Ci put away his cell phone playfully and chatted briefly with Han Chen and Tang Mingqing beside him.
After Xu Rui had finished talking with Lu Ci, he talked about it with his mother and grandma.
Yu Chunhua has been able to see Mrs. Tang during the Spring Festival in the past few years. She used to go to Xu Ning’s restaurant to get to know her, and then at several banquets, because of Xu Ning’s relationship, she had a good relationship with Qin Xuejuan. Starting to move around, of course, it is only the friendship between women. After all, Xu Jianjun is a national cadre, not a business person, and it is not convenient to have close contacts with business people.
Mrs. Tang’s ancestral home was from a water town in the south of the Yangtze River. During the war, the family moved overseas and married Mr. Tang, and then returned to the motherland with her husband changing nationality.
In recent years, with China's international influence, many people who have gone overseas have chosen to return to their country to develop their careers, but not many have really changed their nationalities.
"Are you actually going to be a matchmaker for Lu Ci's kid?" Qin Xuejuan looked at her son with admiration, when did this kid light up this skill.
Xu Rui choked, "No, I just think that two people should be suitable. It's between them and whether it's possible to talk about it or not. It has nothing to do with me."
Qin Xuejuan had met Tang Mingya twice, because she was a junior, she only said a few words briefly, but she looked like a quiet and sensible child, which was more pleasing.
The birthday banquet was very lively. After it was over, everyone was ready to get up and go home until three o'clock in the afternoon.
At this time, the Han family is not embarrassed to stay, after all, it is the end of the year, and no one is busy.
Lu Ci didn’t ask for contact information with Tang Mingya. He wanted to look at it again. The relationship requires careful consideration, and the backgrounds of the two families are good. Only 24 in a few years, only 25 after the new year, so don’t worry.
Nowadays, young people do not get married early, 2223 early, and 30 late. He has wealth and beauty, and he has no worries about finding a wife.
When he returned home, Lu Ci saw that Lu's mother seemed to want to stop him from saying something. Lu Ci lifted his foot and quickly walked upstairs.
"Lu Ci, come here. Mom has something to tell you." Mother Lu didn't feel her son was hiding from him when she saw this.
Lu Ci kept walking, turning his head and rushing towards Lu's mother: "I have something to tell Xu Rui, I know what you want to tell me, can you not worry about laboring so much? I can handle my affairs by myself, and it's not three. Two-year-old kid, please forgive me."
"Hey, I'm talking about you brat..." Mother Lu reacted. The son knew what he was looking for, so he just hid.
When Dad Lu saw this, he hurriedly stopped his wife, "Well, what the son said is right. He is an adult. How can you interfere with emotional matters? Back then, we were free to fall in love. It was your turn to think about taking care of it. Marriage failed?"
Mother Lu almost fainted, and shook her husband's arm away, "Am I that old feudal lady?"
"No, of course not!" Father Lu said hurriedly.
"I just want to ask, what is his impression of the little girl from the Tang family, I don't plan to ask anything else, can't I even ask about this?" Mama Lu was quite aggrieved, "You guys. The father and son joined forces to bully me."
What's wrong with her? Never thought of an arranged marriage for his son.
Moreover, Lu Ci is her son, and she is not a passer-by who she doesn't know. She really wants her son to find a girlfriend and fall in love. She has to look everywhere first. If it doesn't fit, she will have a chance to find it again, right? Does he still think that the flash marriage will not happen?
Let's talk about the conscience of heaven and earth. She just wanted to ask Lu Ci, what impression or favor she had towards Tang Mingya's little girl today, so she would try again. Without her, she wouldn't have to think about anything else. That stinky kid actually ran away.
"Okay, okay, my fault, you will ask him again when you have dinner in the evening. You are tired from tossing all day. Let's take a break. It's a short while later?" Dad Lu said quietly.
As soon as Mother Lu heard this, the grievances in her heart disappeared, "That's OK, ask again during dinner."
"Well, watch TV. The mother-in-law in your favorite family has also started acting."
"Yes, yes, watch TV." Mother Lu glanced at the time, and quickly picked up the remote control to turn on the TV, "Oh, it's ten minutes late. Yesterday's didn't pick up."
She likes watching this kind of family ethics drama, especially between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
Of course, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, Mother Lu likes it best. After all, she will be a mother-in-law in a few years. First, watch TV. There are some ways to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Then she will find a balance with her daughter-in-law. Point, it would be embarrassing for the province to make conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.
In the room, Lu Ci called Xu Rui and said that he was talking on kk.
Soon, Xu Rui sent a video conversation to Lu Ci.
"Let me tell you, I saw Tang Mingya today." Lu Ci sat on the irregular sofa in the bedroom with his knees crossed.
"What? Isn't it very beautiful." Xu Rui had met Tang Mingya. It was really hard to talk about being beautiful, but it was not an exaggeration. Tang Mingya's temperament could easily make a mother-level woman match her.
The whole body reveals a kind of intelligence and education, but what does the mother-in-law like? I like the kind of educated daughter-in-law.
But the mother-in-law of some families who don't know a single character may be an exception.
But in their kind of family, the daughter-in-law is the face of the future son. Tang Mingya is really too good. After seeing Tang Mingya, many Kuo wives in the upper circle define her as the best candidate for the daughter-in-law, she The market is tight.
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Xu Rui: I think you like this one.
Lu Ci: Ha ha!
Tang Mingya: Ha ha!
Lu Ci: ...Who am I? What did I say when I was there?
Tang Mingya: When you have a ghost in your heart, you always like to pretend to be dumb and sweet.
Lu Ci: o (╥﹏╥) o