Chapter 103, The Importance of Identity Equivalence

   Daohua’s ten-year-old birthday did not take place, nor did she invite the ladies to come over to play, but simply ate a bowl of longevity noodles with her family and it passed.

   "Daohua, haven't you and Miss Zhou's always in touch? Why don't you call people to sit at home today?"

  I have eaten longevity noodles. Mrs. Li, Sun's, Wu's, Yan Yihuan, Yan Yishuang, and Yan Yile all sat in the old lady’s room and chatted with the old lady.

Daohua glanced at her meaningful second aunt. Yan Wenjie failed to go to Wangyue Academy. After all, the people in the second room had a grudge: "I haven't known Sister Zhou for a long time, so it's not easy to invite someone. "

Sun shook his head and disagreed: "Daohua, it's not that the second aunt said you. Your idea is wrong. The interaction between people depends on walking with each other. If there are more exchanges, the feelings will naturally deepen. NS."

   Daohua smiled and said, "The second aunt said that, but I think that you should pay attention to the identity of each other, so that you can feel comfortable in this place, don't you think?"

  Lady Zhou is the former first assistant. On Tuesday, the master is the servant of the staff. The Zhou family is much higher than the Yan family.

  Don’t think that the Zhou family is pretty good to the Yan family now, but it is all because of Xiao Yeyang's face, not because of the Yan family itself.

  At this time, if the Yan family dared up without knowing what to do, the Zhou family might not say anything on the face, but in private, I’m afraid they will look down on the Yan family.

Besides, Zhou Jingwan seems to be arrogant at first glance. She needs to be held and spoiled by others at all times. She usually gives gifts to each other to maintain a relationship, so she will not take the initiative to recruit people to find uncomfortable. Woolen cloth.

  Sun did not expect Daohua to say this, and was slightly surprised, and then smiled again: "You girl, too much heart. Why do you need to think about so much about the play and communication between your little girls?"

"Listen to your second aunt, send an invitation to the girl from the Zhou family, and get close to her. The Zhou family is well-connected in Xingzhou. With her and a few of your sisters, you and the young ladies from Xingzhou City will definitely meet you. Get familiar quickly."

  This is her goal, to let her two daughters go out to socialize more.

After coming to Xingzhou City, she deeply realized the importance of identity.

  In the county seat, even if she is only the sibling of the county grandfather, and the person in charge is just a white body, she can still visit each house alone.

  But in Xingzhou City, unless her sister-in-law led her, she could not even enter the door of other people's homes.

  She can't get in, let alone her two daughters.

  The head of the house has been finalized in this life. If the two daughters want to have a good future, they cannot rely on their own fathers, and now they can still count on Wenjie.

   Even if Ke Wenjie is promising, it will be years later.

   Let the two daughters have more contact with the official ladies. In any case, the knowledge and vision will definitely be raised. Isn't it better than staying at home and studying?

  As soon as these words came out, Yan Yihuan and the three of them all looked at Daohua. Obviously, these words came into their hearts.

Daohua's expression faded. She found that the people in the second room seemed to like to teach people how to do things. This is the case with the second uncle and the second aunt.

  When interacting with people, she pays attention to letting it go. She doesn't like to be too specialized, especially those with utilitarian purposes.

  The old lady Yan didn’t know much about the communication rules of the big family home. It was a good thing that Daohua had more contact with girls of the same age, so she didn’t say anything.

  Mrs. Li knows the rules of each family. Although the communication between children does not need to be so particular, the behavior is still affected by the status of the family.

  For example, if Daohua is in contact with Ms. Zhou's family, then, to Ms. Zhou's family, Daohua's are only low-end.

  Mrs. Li glanced at her obviously unhappy daughter, and Sun who seemed to have to persuade her, smiled and stopped: “I didn’t prepare anything today. How can I invite others to come home, next time.”

   Immediately, the voice changed and the topic was turned away.

  Wu also helped divert the topic, and smiled and looked at the old lady: "Mother, I heard that the wine you brewed with Daohua can be drunk?"

   Speaking of wine, the old lady immediately became interested. She really did not expect that Daohua could make wine by sealing the grapes casually.

   "It's ready to drink, it tastes good, not very intoxicating."

   Daohua smiled and said: "Grandma, drinking wine is good for your body, but you can’t drink too much. If you like to drink, just drink one glass a day."

  The old lady nodded: "Don't worry, your grandmother is not greedy. It's you, a little cat. When you opened it last time, Man'er carried you back to the yard."

  Daohua san smiled, really don't blame her, it is that the wine tastes so good, she drank it directly as a drink, who knows that the stamina is too great, and she fainted.

  "The Mid-Autumn Festival is about to come. By that time, the eldest brother and the others should have a holiday. The fourth brother clamored for wine early in the morning. When they come back, our family can enjoy the moon while drinking small wine."

  The old lady smiled happily immediately after hearing this.

  When people are old, they like their children and grandchildren to surround their knees.

  Sun said again: "Isn’t the little prince also studying in the academy? Daohua, would you like to write a letter to the little prince, inviting him to our house for the Mid-Autumn Festival?”

  Hearing this, Inaka couldn't help but roll her eyes back.

  Why is her second aunt's face so big?

  She didn’t even want to make friends with the Zhou family, let alone Xiao Yeyang, the imperial son!

  The identity gap is too big. You are stunned to stand on tiptoe and reach out to reach, are you not tired?

  She has only one thought for Xiao Yeyang, that is, if he gets close to Yan's family, then she will do her best to give back, so that the relationship between the two parties can be maintained as much as possible in the balance between you and me.

But if he alienates the Yan family, then she will not rush to please and flatter her, because it is probably useless to do so. There are too many people like him who flatter flattery, unless there is interest involved, otherwise , Don't mention how disgusting it will be.

  Of course, the Yan family's foundation is weak, and she still hopes to maintain a good relationship with Xiao Yeyang. In this way, although he has taken a lot of advantage invisibly, she will do her best to compensate.

  Ms. Li looked a little displeased, and looked at Sun faintly: "Second siblings, don’t say anything like this in the future. Where can Little Prince Daohua communicate?"

   "Also, when you go out in the future, in front of outsiders, it is best not to mention the little prince. The royal children are not something that ordinary people can talk about."

  Sun’s face was a little stiff. Mrs. Li has always been very amiable to the two wives, and rarely gets angry. Such a straightforward thing, she would not have said before.

   "Sister-in-law, I know." Sure enough, a woman's greatest confidence is when her husband is loyal and his children are prosperous. Sister-in-law didn’t speak so hard before!

After   , Daohua did not stay in the house, but returned to Daohuaxuan.

  At this time, the Daohuaxuan is no longer as empty as it was when we first moved in. Wall-climbing roses of various colors crawled across the corridor of the flower shed, lush and full of flowers.

  In the yard, the flowerbeds are also full of colorful flowers.

  The breeze is blowing, and the fragrance is overflowing.

  "Girl, the flower shop is about to open soon. If the business is good, will our flowers be enough to sell?" A lot of the flowers in the yard have been transplanted into pots, but they can't be moved anymore.

   "Don't worry, I have already set up a piece of land in Zhuangzi for planting flowers."

   "What about winter?"

  "There is a greenhouse in winter! Uncle Zheng has to build an extra greenhouse, one for planting flowers, one for growing vegetables." You can't eat without vegetables in winter.

  (End of this chapter)