Chapter 2086 Love me, please don't belittle me (14)

   The next second, he raised his head and said to Yin Yin, "Mom, let's go home."

  Yin Yin glanced at the plastic bucket that was 80% full and said, "It's almost full, why don't my mother accompany you."

   "Huh?" Xiao Xia Xia was stunned.

  Yin Yin squatted down, picked up Xiao Shenlin's shovel, and shoveled the sand together.

   She has been looking at Xiao Xia Xia from the corner of her eye, and she saw the latter, after being stunned for a while, then smiled, swept away the slack just now, and shoveled the sand happily.

   Soon, a bucket was full and their mission was done.

The    child seemed to have a sense of accomplishment, looked at the full bucket, and smiled again.

   "Come on, let's wash our hands and go home."

"Um."

   On the way back, the little guy was obviously very happy.

  Yin Yin sat with him on the bus seat, looking at the child with his calves dangling, thoughtfully.

   Actually, what Shen Lin's mother just said, the original owner has said countless times.

  Children have a childlike innocence and like to play.

   Even adults don’t understand what fun is shoveling sand, but children still have a lot of fun.

   In the past, when the original owner came to the kindergarten to pick up Xiao Xia, he would also encounter Xiao Xia and his friends playing.

Sometimes Xiao Xia only delays the work for a while, and the original owner becomes extremely impatient, and directly says, "If you play again, mother will not want your words." Or "How old are you, how do you know how to play? Look at it. You, playing with your clothes so dirty, don't you have to go back and wash them for you as a mother, do you know how difficult it is to wash?"

  Xiao Xia was always intimidated by the original owner like this, and finally had to be obedient and suppress his own nature.

Yin Yin doesn't understand why there are mothers who can easily say things that they don't want children, even if they just say it casually, just to scare the child, but the child's heart is the purest, he is likely to take it seriously, because you casually say it. A sentence sentence is in anxiety and cautious, and will be afraid of being abandoned.

   Another example is that most children will ask their mother: Mom, where did I come from.

  Some mothers also joked that you are my phone bill, you are what I picked up from the trash can, you are me...

   They are joking, but children may take it seriously.

  Yin Yin thought, there is no child who does not want to be born with love. Is it so difficult to say that you are the crystallization of the love between me and your father?

  Some parents are still saying to themselves a fluffy "whatever you do, I won't want you" so that their children can be obedient and complacent.

  Yin Yin didn't understand what was there to be complacent about, but rather sad.

   suppresses the child's nature, and uses this semi-threatening method to make the child fear the mother.

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"Tomorrow, mom will go to G city to pick up your sister. Xiaozhi can order takeout at noon tomorrow. You don't have to come back for a run. If I don't come back at five o'clock in the afternoon, Xiaozhi will go to the kindergarten to pick up every day from school." At dinner, Yin Yin directly dropped a blockbuster.

   Xia Zhi was stunned, but the four-year-old Xia did not understand the deep meaning of these words.

  Xia Zhi responded immediately: "Mom, I understand."

   "Besides, from now on, you two little ones, I will give you pocket money on a fixed monthly basis. It's up to you how you want to spend this pocket money."

   Probably because he was relatively poor in the past, the original owner controlled every cent of the children's money.

   (end of this chapter)