Chapter 638 Negative Education for Single Mothers (10)

  Yin Yin panicked and said distressedly: "What's the matter, why are you crying?"

   Could it be that her tone just now was too heavy?

She knew that Yin Yu and Yin Cheng had always been in the negative voice of the original owner. In the original owner's opinion, Yin Yu and Yin Cheng could not achieve the kind of excellence she wanted, so what was given to the two children has always been negative. , no matter how good they do it, it won't change.

  The original owner has very good requirements for the two children, and she is a complaining type, so she does not allow the two children to make mistakes, even if it is a little mistake, she will scold for a long time.

This also led to the two children being not close to her. In front of the mother who was supposed to be the closest, they were careful in what they did and what they said, for fear of being afraid if they made a mistake accidentally, they did not dare to resist, raise into a cowardly character.

   They were denied by the original owner, and their self-confidence was constantly beaten, so they felt that they were not good enough and had low self-esteem.

  But, everyone has a first time, and they can do everything from the beginning. Children can’t. Isn’t what parents have to do to teach them patiently? If both parents and children start from the same starting line, it is not certain who is more capable than the other.

   Besides, even if not so, no one stipulates that people must be all-powerful. Everyone is good at it. If he is not good at it, as long as he can realize his value in a certain field, he is good.

   During the child's learning stage, parents should give patience and encouragement, not accusation and criticism. Yin Yin dislikes the latter.

   Besides, who in this world does not make mistakes, why does the original owner turn a blind eye when he makes mistakes, but is so harsh when the child makes a little mistake, or even just accidentally breaks a cup?

   Small mistakes can be forgiven and corrected.

   Big mistakes also have the opportunity to be forgiven.

   All mistakes are not a big deal in the face of life and death.

The endings of the two children in their previous lives are also related to their characters. If Yin Yu hadn't been disgusted with men because of the original owner, Yin Yu would not have been afraid of marriage. She might have a happy life with Ling Jin. If Yin Yu was not cowardly , If you are assertive, you will not be so humble in front of the scumbag husband and in-law's family, and you will be afraid of being abandoned.

  If Yin Cheng was not cowardly and inferior, he would not have been easily deceived when the false Virgin girl appeared, and he would not have been unable to bear to die with her.

   Therefore, Yin Yin did not agree with the original owner's education method, but now the characters of Yin Yu and Yin Cheng have been influenced by the original owner. What Yin Yin can do is to change the education method and give affirmation and encouragement to the two children.

   At this time, Yin Yu raised her red eyes and confirmed to Yin Yin: "Mom, don't you really blame me?"

  Yin Yin saw from memory in a trance that because she was used to being accused, Yin Yu would habitually apologize every time her mother didn't speak.

But her eyes were still full of hope at first. She hoped that her mother could tell her "it's no big deal", say "just be careful next time", and say "it's okay, everyone makes mistakes sometimes" .

   But what Yin Yu got was blows again and again.

   And this time, Yin Yin finally told her "it's okay", but she changed from longing to unsure, so she was sure again.

   Yin Yu should be so afraid of being blamed, and so used to being blamed, that without blame and disappointment, she didn't believe it at the first time.

  This is the sadness of the original owner's negative education.

   (end of this chapter)