Chapter 3051 adamas (4)

Just relying on a copy of the contract, a person's identity has actually changed, or what is the difference between leasing land based on identity and contract?

 Parents’ parental rights over their children are natural. According to German law, as long as the parents are not divorced but only legally separated, they both still have parental rights. Once they divorce, the parental rights may be transferred.

 According to Roman law, the interests of the parents were given priority, while the Germanic people valued the interests of the children. When a father needs an heir and the mother is unable to raise a child, the father can seek the mother's consent to transfer the child's parental rights to him.

However, in most divorce cases, parents will compete for custody of their children. There are also cases where the father is unwilling to assume custody obligations, but he admits that the child is his own, just because he is away from home all year round and cannot raise him. At this time, the mother will take the child and accept the child support from him. When the mother remarries, her parental rights to the child are gone, but she still has the obligation to custody and care for the child.

 She gave birth to the child and is of course "always" the child's mother. But this involves another person, her new husband, or the child's stepfather.

The essence of marriage consists in the legal union between a man and a woman for the purpose of living a common life.

This relationship must be established on a mutual basis. When one party demands complete submission without promising the same thing in return, there is an "abuse" of the purpose of living together and violates the principle of respect.

There is no blood relationship between the stepfather and the stepchildren, and he has no obligation to take care of the stepchildren before marrying his current wife. Of course, there are also situations where the stepfather requires the woman he is married to to hand over the children of her ex-husband to someone else to take care of, and then he takes care of the stepchildren. marry.

The woman is unwilling because she has to take care of her own children. If the two cannot reach an agreement on the purpose of living together, the marriage will not be completed.

Requiring the stepfather to take custody of the stepchildren is a unilateral obligation and expects him to make unilateral sacrifices. His submission may be completely unrewarded because the stepson hates him and prefers to live with his biological father. The stepson's father may have been a "sailor" just like George V when he was young. He could rarely go home throughout the year unless he went drifting on the sea with his father and did not receive compulsory education.

There are many couples who ask others to give unilaterally but themselves give nothing. One spouse has a mistress or lover, and the couple agrees not to meet the third party again, but the cheating partner still meets the third party.

This is not only morally inappropriate, but also behaviorally inappropriate. He or she refuses to surrender to his or her identity. Since he or she is married, his or her behavior will be restricted, and the behavior of constantly seeing a third party proves that maintenance The possibility of a proper conjugal life in the future becomes doubtful.

This kind of scenario often appears in the women's magazines that Pomona often reads. The husband promises time and time again, but later it turns out that he has not fulfilled it at all, and the wife angrily accuses him of "lying."

 Only through mutual consent of personalities can each spouse be given legitimacy to give up his own obligations to his partner.

There are also couples where the husband and wife each have their own lovers outside. Except that they do not love each other, they have no legitimate reason to restrict the other's behavior.

 Back to the stepfather’s issue, his remarriage partner saw qualities in him that were different from those of his ex-husband, including sacrifice, compassion, humility, pride, etc. in chivalry.

 Is he willing to assume unilateral obligations and make unilateral sacrifices? Even if he is a citizen.

Harry is not like Neville. He has shown magical talent since he was very young, and will come to the magic school to attend classes as expected. If Severus takes care of him as if he were his own child, this is "honorable".

Even regardless of his relationship with Lily, as a professor he still has this obligation, just like Dumbledore, but the group of people he "socializes" with is different.

 They leave the education of their children to their wives and teachers, and then they are busy with their careers, or they may be new female secretaries, assistants, celebrities, or models.

Lucius Malfoy has constant scandals, but he can be regarded as a family man. Firstly, he has no illegitimate children. Secondly, he really respects Narcissa Malfoy, the former young lady of the Black family, even though the Black family can no longer support her.

Narcissa always looks glamorous when he appears in social activities. He also keeps a distance from other people. If he doesn't communicate with others, he doesn't need to listen to gossip. People who regard Malfoy as "prey" don't care about his married status and the dilapidated Black family.

"Respect" can be very simple. The sergeant who was fighting for custody of the child in the separation case may have been a serf before 1848, and suddenly he was emancipated. He disciplined himself with knightly habits and gained the respect of his colleagues and superiors.

However, his doubts about his wife cast doubt on the possibility of the two of them maintaining a proper married life in the future. This is legal disrespect and also disrespect for his wife's personality. Without mutual consent of personality, the other party cannot be allowed to have sex. Surrendering to her own identity and limiting her behavior, maybe she really started seeing other people after the separation.

The next "plot" was made up by Pomona. It's possible that she wanted a divorce and the sergeant didn't agree to the divorce. If he aims at preventing his wife from remarrying without divorce, this is also a kind of "abuse" unless he feels that there is still a possibility for the two of them to continue living together. He could say that to the court mediator, although he didn't think so in his heart, but it was not in line with the "honesty" required by chivalry.

Nietzsche said that egoists lack love and sacrifice. If a person is self-interested enough, he will accept the sacrifices of others again and again and live a life that is beneficial to him.

Lily sacrificed her life to fight against the mysterious man, not to mention she was very straightforward with Severus. She did not ask "Sever" to take care of her children, and she did not have that time, even if they were very good when they were young. friend.

 She has her own family and a life.

 A medieval lord who left his family and property to a friend to look after the king while he was on an expedition, and he gave the use of the land to the transferee (transferee).

Another trust model emerged in the late Middle Ages. In a will, the testator transfers the ownership of the land to the feoffee. Although they are similar, the proceeds must be given to the benefits specified by the testator. People are a different concept.

If the transferee fails to perform, there is no penalty. If the recipient breaches the contract, he or she can theoretically be "excommunicated" by the church, although due to the difficulty of the procedure, few executors are actually excommunicated from the church.

 The dead cannot come back, not even the king. After the death of George V, it was not George VI who came to the throne. He had a stutter, and he lived in an era of orators.

Anyway, that year was busy enough, and the knight who entrusted his friend to take care of him would come back.

Margaret's love affair was also made public after the death of George VI. Her sister grew up with her. What should she be afraid of even if she wears the crown?

 Divorced women are like written paper, not as pure and white as girls, and everything written on them is clear at a glance.

Different countries have different interpretations of parental rights. George V once fell in love with a woman with his brother, but he told Queen Victoria that "brotherhood is unchanged" and he withdrew from the competition.

But "luck" seemed to favor him. He not only inherited the throne, but also married the woman he loved.

What he didn't get was a stamp, which was discovered by a little Scottish boy. Everyone knows that George V loved to collect stamps, or maybe it was a special rule in the stamp collecting circle. That stamp sold for a sky-high price at auction, which George V could not afford.

Later, it is said that another stamp was discovered, an American businessman bought it at a high price, and then burned it with a cigar. From then on, the stamp was "unique" again.

When Pomona saw the "Only I know" smile on Severus's face, she somehow thought of a scene in a certain TV series. The husband already had a mistress, and the wife didn't know it, and she was still asking him how to use it. What plates to serve at a child's birthday party.

This kind of anger, mixed with a sense of shame, made her feel disgusted. In addition, the wind from the fight between the two chickens blew the smell of chicken excrement away, and she did not want to stay in this place any longer.

Severus’s reason for reading is to gain strength. Some people think that reading is to combat his own ignorance, narrow-mindedness, prejudice, and darkness. Pomona wishes she knew better so she wouldn't be fooled, because she knows she's a fool.

 Perhaps he felt her mood swings, and the smile on his face slowly disappeared.

 “Are you angry?” he asked seriously.

 “No.” Pomona denied, not meeting his eyes.

 “What are you angry about?” he said inexplicably.

 “Nothing,” Pomona said lightly.

 “Obviously not, did I make a mistake?” he asked.

 “What did you say wrong?”

 He did not answer for a long time.

 “I’m sorry,” he said after a while.

 “Why are you apologizing?” Pomona asked.

"I shouldn't call you that." He said seriously, looking at her face carefully.

“You think I’m angry because you called me a weirdo?” Pomona asked.

 He said nothing.

 In fact, Pomona was grateful to him for being "honest" in telling her, "You're a weirdo."

 “I’m not angry about that,” Pomona said.

 “Then what are you angry about?” he asked probingly, his voice unconsciously getting louder, just like Tobias.

  She wanted to say "Don't lie to me".

 But the reality is that people will lie no matter how much they are asked to do so.

"I'm sorry." He pinched his nose in distress, "I shouldn't have yelled at you."

"Be a responsible person, Snape," Pomona said calmly. "I know what the kind of people you 'socialize' with are like."

 He looked at her calmly.

"I won't stop you from interacting with them. Interpersonal relationships are equally important in human society, but don't be affected by them. You won't be so lucky next time. Are there any of the people Karkaroff didn't reveal?"

 He should be awake, Pomona was satisfied and sighed.

"Think about how you escaped. Your greatest advantage is your mind. Albus said you are a smart person. This is what I admire about you." Pomona looked up at this junior fellow student who was younger than her. "You Not like other people.”

 She suddenly understood why the mysterious man let him go, even though Snape did not agree with him and speak ill of his Muggle father, nor did he kneel down and kiss his robes and beg for his forgiveness.

 “Am I special to you?” He seemed to have misunderstood something and looked at her with eyes full of emotion.

She didn’t want to say certain words beside the chicken shed that smelled like chicken shit, but just as she was about to take a step, he blocked her way.

 “Answer my question,” he said threateningly, as if he wouldn’t stop until he got an answer.

Pomona feels that she can make do without roses and candlelight dinner, but last time it was the toilet, this time it is the chicken shed...

“Are you kidding me?” he said angrily. Although he stopped shouting, his expression was sinister.

She subconsciously took a step back, and then he took a step forward.

"professor!"

 At this time, she heard someone say.

"How are you?"

Pomona followed the sound and found that it was Hagrid. His tall figure made Pomona feel very safe.

 “I’m fine,” Pomona said, looking at Severus again.

 He stood upright with a stiff expression, as if nothing had happened.

 “What are you doing here?” Hagrid asked.

"Take a walk." Pomona glared at Severus and said, "Let's see how your chickens are doing."

 “As you can see, they're fine,” said Hagrid.

"That's great," Pomona said, and walked away without looking back, leaving the two men puzzled.

 (End of this chapter)