PUA, the term first entered the public's field of vision, originated from the news of a female college student committing suicide in a top domestic college.

Because the previous identity of the suicide was indeed too good, it formed a huge contrast with her suicidal behavior, coupled with the collection of evidence from the victim’s mother, the reason for her suicide gradually emerged...

When Qu Yan saw this, he naturally thought of the news.

The content of the news is indeed appalling.

That's right, the cause of the girl's suicide was her boyfriend's PUA and mental control.

In the beginning, her boyfriend attacked her because she was not the perfect body, which hit her self-confidence and self-esteem; after that, she gradually forced her to call herself by words such as "dog" and "slave"; later, her boyfriend acted Intensified, asking girls to sterilize him, self-mutilate him, and even commit suicide for him.

The girl’s mother found out the chat information between the girl and her boyfriend before she was alive and made it public. Only then did the public understand the concept of PUA.

PUA was originally the abbreviation of pick-upartist in English. At first, it was just to teach people the skills to strike up a conversation in love, but later, it gradually developed into an emotional deception, a mental manipulation technique, and even because someone can get it from it. Profit and carry forward.

After all, in a normal relationship, some behaviors of the other party cannot be predicted and controlled. Take borrowing money as an example. A normal partner who borrows money will usually do what he can, but a partner who is controlled by the mind can borrow him. The last copper plate in the pocket, and there is no need to return it, because he has been manipulated.

The PUA technique allows you to manipulate your partner as much as possible. Of course, not just a partner, any relationship between two people may have one party manipulated the other.

The core principle of manipulation is to make the victim contradictory by hitting the victim, making the victim doubt and not believe in himself, thus relying on the manipulator.

Qu Yan looked at this line of words on the computer, and suddenly felt cold all over his body.

Reminiscing about all the things that happened to her some time ago, all her doubts about herself started from her own "audience hallucinations".

From that moment on, she suspected that there was something wrong with her body...

She suddenly felt cold all over.

Qu Yan searched in the drawer of the bedside table, found the remote control of the air conditioner, turned on the air conditioner, and raised the temperature of the room, and then patiently continued to read the paper before him.

At this moment, suddenly, a baby's cry sounded in her ears...

Qu Yan was taken aback, and subconsciously wanted to doubt herself, but soon she thought that she and Ji Zhuoran had both left the ward today and attended Yao Zimo's engagement banquet, but Wen Siyu did not come.

Now, as soon as she heard this cry, Qu Yan had already guessed that she must have come to the ward while she was leaving, and she should have hidden another recording pen.

Qu Yan took a deep breath, she had never hated a person so much as she did now.

She had already hid in the hospital, and she was still holding on to her?

What does Vance Rain want to do?

She squeezed her fist, looked around, tore a few strands of facial tissue to block her ear holes, feeling that the crying sound became a lot weaker, and then continued to read the paper in front of her.

As mentioned later, when the victim encounters manipulation for the first time, his reaction is roughly divided into three steps.

The first step is to doubt.

The victim will initially wonder if it is her own problem, and will also ask if there is something wrong with the outside world. Therefore, some manipulators will isolate the victim, such as deliberately slandering her friends, relatives, etc. There are not many people around the victim who can help him find the correct answer.

Qu Yan thought about it carefully. At this point, Wen Siyu didn’t do much. But at that time, she was in confinement. Although she met some guests, she needed to recover, so in fact, she did do it most of the time. In a state of isolation and helplessness.

If it weren't for that day, Qu Ning directly pushed open the door of her ward...

She gritted her teeth and kept watching.

The second step is to justify.

The victim will begin to defend his actions, but if the object he seeks to identify with is the manipulator, then he must not be able to get an answer that satisfies him.

Qu Yan thought of hearing the baby crying that day, so she opened Wen Siyu's door and asked her if Xiao Rui was in her room or if she was crying...

She suddenly felt that she was so pitiful.

The third step is depression.

At this point, the victim has begun to believe that the manipulator is right, but he is wrong, so he will actively suppress himself and accept the manipulation.

Victims at this stage will feel like living in hell...

Thinking of his crying and fainting in front of the cemetery that day, Qu Yan already felt dizzy.